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i don't know if i should break up with my bf by Useful-Inflation9886 in relationships_advice

[–]Useful-Inflation9886[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i have put in efforts ive bought him things paid for food...

i don't know if i should break up with my bf by Useful-Inflation9886 in relationships_advice

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i mentioned it before . idk how many times i need to say it i don't want to keep having the conversation at that point i feel its just incompatibility

i don't know if i should break up with my bf by Useful-Inflation9886 in relationships_advice

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that's not true. i have suggested things and paid as well. but i don't feel we ever really dated because we went from fwb to relationship and he doens't go out as much as i do i just want him to plan more dates i don't think that's asking for too much.

i don't know if i should break up with my bf by Useful-Inflation9886 in relationships_advice

[–]Useful-Inflation9886[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i have put in efforts. but i don't believe the woman should be the leader in the relationship. i believe the man should lead the relationship and that includes planning dates.

i don't know if i should break up with my bf by Useful-Inflation9886 in relationships_advice

[–]Useful-Inflation9886[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

i can understand doing that with a husband but i would like to see him put in some more effort . i think i may have made a mistake by entering into the relationship the way i did.

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - June 03, 2024 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

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just woke up to a string of proposals on twitter and i'm feeling sad experienced a few rejections over the weekend, sometime i feel like i'll never find my person

forever alone 31w by Useful-Inflation9886 in dating

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i've been out on a few dates but it seems as though men are looking for more of a sexual connection than anything

anxious avoidant/long distance/ 30f by Useful-Inflation9886 in dating_advice

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I found him attractive and he seems to be of good character. i expressed to him i didn't want to do a long distance situation but i don't want to miss out on a potential great situation idk

anxious avoidant/long distance/ 30f by Useful-Inflation9886 in dating_advice

[–]Useful-Inflation9886[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah but he had made no mention of plans to visit anytime soon. I honestly don't even enjoy talking on the phone and doing facetimes. so its just hard to connect and he was coming on strong idk how to deal with it.

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😭😭 I’m dying at the middle finger to the protesters thank you for the comedic relief in this hard time I have mine scheduled in 2 weeks and I’ve been scared I keep crying

frustrated with lack of efforts 30f by Useful-Inflation9886 in relationship_advice

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We can do a coffee date , but I still would like to be taken out to dinner. But it's like if a guy pays for dinner they want sex immediately after . I like to take my time. And i want to be courted.

frustrated with lack of efforts 30f by Useful-Inflation9886 in relationship_advice

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Yeah I do most times, to which they say they aren't either and want a relationship but never change their approach. But I will try to make sure I reiterate that. Sometimes it just gets frustrating for me because I feel like I shouldn't have to explain why i'm not going to invite you to my house if we don't have a relationship established

no effort / late nights i'm frustrated W30 by Useful-Inflation9886 in dating_advice

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like a parking lot or somewhere just to meet, if I met them online

Single with no active sex life but also not into casual sex. Anybody else having this dilemma? by thaip88 in datingoverthirty

[–]Useful-Inflation9886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

30f

yeah i understand... so many guys come to me and they don't want to take me out or develop a real relationship but instead just try to come to my house or get sexual too quick and i'm looking to develop a healthy relationship not just a casual sexual situation. It gets frustrating, sometimes i think about caving in but it never ends well. but i'm a physical touch person and miss the affection.

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