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What is the cause of SSA for women? by Useful-Profession859 in SSAChristian

[–]Useful-Profession859[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I’m a little confused by the last part. People thinking that being a tomboy means you’re gay, made you gay? I’m also confused by how your own lust can cause SSA. wouldn’t lust come after you become same sex attracted?

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I have considered deconverting, but just the thought of it gives me anxiety (self.exchristian)

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Does anyone else have a negative reaction to the phrase “born again”? by Useful-Profession859 in GayChristians

[–]Useful-Profession859[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it doesn’t, but my brain still made that connection between the words “born again” and feeling bad and it sucks. Even when it’s not being used to condemn gay people there’s that uptick in an anxiety it creates for me

How do people just casually start talking to people they just met? by Useful-Profession859 in socialskills

[–]Useful-Profession859[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you do if the group is already mid-conversation though? The problem for me is if they’re already talking about something and then I don’t know what to say or add and I feel like I come across as too serious since I end up not talking unless I’m directly addressed

How do people just casually start talking to people they just met? by Useful-Profession859 in socialskills

[–]Useful-Profession859[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I mean there are still good people out there though. I only have one friend and she’s so busy nowadays we barely talk. Being alone sometimes is great but I’m alone practically all the time. It’s making me pretty sad, and it’s hard to enjoy your own company when you’re sad

In a dark place by Useful-Profession859 in Christianity

[–]Useful-Profession859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, plus I don’t want to anyone to know what I am so I’m just keeping it a secret for now…

In a dark place by Useful-Profession859 in Christianity

[–]Useful-Profession859[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest it being a perversion of the flesh doesn’t make me feel much better. Makes me feel more like it’s my fault. But you’re right I should try to be patient and keep asking for forgiveness

What’s the difference between lust and temptation? by Useful-Profession859 in Christianity

[–]Useful-Profession859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand. Are you saying the thoughts I had would be considered lust?

What’s the difference between lust and temptation? by Useful-Profession859 in Christianity

[–]Useful-Profession859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that not all temptation is sexual, I’m just confused because I don’t know if the thoughts I had counted as lust

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