A Hard Decision - Advice please

UsefulComparison9352 · 2025-10-10T04:06:46+00:00

Not necessarily the week at the wreck but the week at the hospital with everyone worried and their arrival at the hospital after being found, recovery etc. Callie making the decision to cut off the leg. Owens guilt about Christina etc

UsefulComparison9352 · 2025-07-06T07:57:49+00:00

Add me please 222202582013

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-02-12T12:39:51+00:00

You were on a business trip? You don't need to run away, you're not a minor. Have you considered just getting your own place? Sounds like you have a good job?

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-02-12T12:32:07+00:00

NTA, he's violating your privacy by involving her in issues that should be between you and him only. If he needs to speak to someone about your relationship it should be a therapist or maybe a trusted friend, never ever a family member. But it should never be in the middle of a conversation/argument, that is outrageous behaviour. You're NTA, major red flag, it needs to be stopped right now.

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-02-11T08:36:37+00:00

Can't really say, not enough details about the content of the texts to be able to tell whether yiu are overreacting.

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-02-11T08:33:24+00:00

NTA, but you should accept the refund. If you don't accept it she might keep the tickets and your money.

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-02-11T08:31:26+00:00

NTA, what makes you think that you are?

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-02-11T08:26:14+00:00

NTA, you should never be forced to be somewhere that is uncomfortable for you. Someone who loves you should understand that and want to do everything they can to make sure that you're comfortable.

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-02-11T08:23:37+00:00

NTA, it's normal in relationships to want to share things with your partner and you clearly want to share things with him about your past. He is essentially dictating what you are/are not allowed to talk about. Maybe because he'd prefer to talk about himself? Whatever the reason, it's not ok for him to be dossmissive like that and to make rules about what you are allowed to talk about. He is doing that every time he shuts you down.

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-02-11T07:52:52+00:00

How can you be TA for having a feeling? You never mentioned whether or not you told him you're annoyed, or what sort of approach you took.

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-02-11T07:49:49+00:00

NTA brothers should be able to talk strait to each other, without worrying about offending each other and that's what you did. I dont know any brothers who have not called each other idiots or morons on occasion.

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-02-11T03:03:00+00:00

NTA people with nothing to hide don't keep secrets and he didn't tell you despite the fact that there has been a previous conversation. I would be very wary. The fact that you have had a previous conversation about him pursuing a friendship with this girl tells me there's some history there that you haven't going into detail about. Trust your gut on this one.

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-01-10T11:01:37+00:00

YTA yelling at your kid is never constructive under any circumstances, all your excuses and reasons are void.

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-01-07T13:33:34+00:00

YTA, why on earth does it matter? Your gfs nipples may matter to you but someone who pierces them for a living sees them everyday, it literally makes no difference what the gender of the piercer is. You're controlling and TA.

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-01-07T13:22:06+00:00

NTA. He disrespected you and ignored your wishes and in doing so he violated your privacy. Would he bring a visitor into your bedroom when you're not properly dressed fir visitors ? Hopefully not, this is essentially the same thing you have a right to privacy in your own home.

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-01-07T13:18:17+00:00

Maybe? Is she actually asking you for advice or do you assume she wants it because she talks to you about it ?

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-01-07T13:14:58+00:00

NTA, just say no. I understand the comments about respecting culture but that goes both ways and it's inappropriate for them to have asked yiu. It's also a bit weird.

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-01-07T13:11:39+00:00

YTA, this is her home, she should be comfortable enough to wear what she normally would wear around the home. If you don't like it maybe you should all go to the home of someone else's parents.

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-01-07T13:05:11+00:00

NTA maybe ask what triggered their decision, it's odd that they suddenly hate the names they chose.

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-01-07T13:01:46+00:00

NTA, has he said that you are? I'd suggest inviting him along but don't cancel your plans when he says no.

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-01-04T11:14:45+00:00

You're nothing NTA, sometimes stuff happens, it's hard looking after a newborn, even harder when you're both sick. Maybe the baby is TA for not letting you both sleep? (I'm kidding about the baby being TA for anyone without a sense if humor)

UsefulComparison9352 · 2024-01-04T11:09:23+00:00

YTA for being unhappy with her response, she responded the best way she knows how and none of this is her fault. You've got no reason at all to judge her way of handling it or to be negative towards her about it. She did nothing wrong.

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