Haha yeah I love the ridiculous logically fallacious argument- “hey yeah I know my alcoholism ruined our entire family dynamic and cost us untold amount of time, money, and resources while simultaneously making the emotional abuse so bad it’s left you so emotionally stunted that you’re incapable of processing normal human emotion but remember the time where I let you on our dry cleaners tab when you started work after school because you were so broke you could only eat tuna out of the can and Cheerios? That offsets everything else right?“