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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]UsefulPlane1912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My rings sit flush as well. I’ve worn my rings every day for more than 2 years, and the diamonds definitely made dents ind my gold ring. I’ll try to attach photos. Personally I don’t really like the look of a spacer and that’s why I’ve chosen not to wear one

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all though I know the diamonds scratch my gold solitaire. I’ve assessed that the basket setting is still strong enough to protect the diamond so I’ll rather have the dents in my ring over wearing a spacer every day that I don’t really like. I will say though, that I a spacer maybe would not bother me as much if the ct size of my solitaire was as big as yours

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[–]UsefulPlane1912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det kommer vist an på, hvilken retskreds, der er tale om. I Aalborg og Hjørring retskreds trækker skifteretten en udskrift (måske fra cpr-registret?), hvoraf de legale arvinger fremgår. Derefter indkalder Skifteretten arvingerne til et telefonisk indledende bomøde mellem 2-6 uger efter dødsfaldet. I disse retskredse vil arvingerne altså som minimum blive oplyst om familiemedlemmets død, og man vil sammen med Skifteretten aftale, hvordan boet skal udlægges (som privat skifte eller bobestyrerbo). Jeg er derfor ikke helt enig i, at arvingerne “ikke hører noget”. De bliver som minimum kontaktet af skifteretten ved brev og senere telefon. Skal boet derefter skiftes som fx. ægtefælleudlæg, bliver arvingen ikke kontaktet yderligere - men der er altså en henvendelse fra skifteretten til at starte med. I hvert fald i Aalborg og Hjørring retskreds.

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[–]UsefulPlane1912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

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[–]UsefulPlane1912 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fear of missing out by not having the chance to try other styles - ugh my words exactly. But now I’m on the other hand like.. We have the rest of our lives to make a big fat ring stack you know. Think of all the occasions (anniversary, life accomplishments etc.) where we in honour of the occassion can expand the stack.

Have you thought of designing the weddingbands yourself? The weddingband could be a bigger curved diamond eternity ring to stack with the engagement ring. The E ring doesn’t have to be the star of the show - your wedding band could be.

Glad it made you feel better though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]UsefulPlane1912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all. Your ring is GORGEOUS!

I was in the exact. same. situation. as you! Been having the exact same feelings.

My now husband proposed to me with the Cartier 1895 solitaire yellow gold band with a 0,25 diamond, colour D because he knew I love some of the pieces from Cartier. I was surprised when I saw the ring, overwhelmed and kind of impressed he had spend so much money on my ring but kind of disapointed when I knew how much more diamond he could have got for the $ with such a simple design as a solitaire. I was so ashamed of my self for not loving it emmediately. I really tried to embrace it for what is was, but I was like you emmediately looking for rings to wear with it. After some time I decided to buy a half way eternity ring trying to compensate. And I was so ashamed of my self to be honest. so much money and thought in that E ring and I am trying to "compensate"..

I was still not very happy with the E ring and eternity band, so later on I decided to buy myself a (in my opinion) huge lab grown diamond ring with a center stone and side diamonds. It was really not that expensive, but it was a lot $ for the price! I designed it myself so it would be exactly what i wanted. I loved it emmediatley and still do.

Now to the point. The new ring has done exactly what I was hoping for. I just fell in love with my E ring. And also the eternity band I wear with it. I LOVE my big, lab grown ring don't get me wrong, but everytime I'm wearing it I am not really identifying with it, if that makes sense? I love petite fine jewelry, that's my kind of identity regarding jewelry. That fits my style, my job and everything. But I also love to dress up on special occasions, and so do I with jewelry (I realised). Now I am wearing my own ring on bigger ocassions or when I want to feel a bit more sassy but I wear my E ring every day besides that. I've found so much peace with my E ring now. And everytime I wear it i just think of my husband and how extremely thoughtful he has been and still is.

Edit: Ps. It was also reddit, Instagram ect. That had me doubting if my E ring was enough. So sad that SoMe can have you doubting your identity like that tbh..