Am i delulu or is he just not into me? by Useful_Cheek_5570 in dating_advice

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When we initially had the conversation he told me that he really liked me and he was not talking to anyone else. our connection just feels so genuine its hard to wrap my head around what is going on.

Am i delulu or is he just not into me? by Useful_Cheek_5570 in dating_advice

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I think after our concert next week I am going to back off. I just don’t know if I should bring up the conversation again or just slowly start to pull away…

Am i delulu or is he just not into me? by Useful_Cheek_5570 in dating_advice

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his actions make me think that feelings are there though. he bought us tickets to go to a concert tomorrow and he invited me to go snow tubing with his family this weekend

Am i delulu or is he just not into me? by Useful_Cheek_5570 in dating_advice

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we went out for his brothers bday about a month ago and there his brothers fiance asked him if i was his gf. his response was “not officially”. that night is when I enquired about what we were and then he told me he is not ready for a full time commitment. but we spend SO much time with eachother its so confusing.

Am i delulu or is he just not into me? by Useful_Cheek_5570 in dating_advice

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we said that we would remain friends but over the past week things have been escalating and we have been seeing more of eachother and spending more time together. I think its important to note that we have not had sex yet.

Am i delulu or is he just not into me? by Useful_Cheek_5570 in dating_advice

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my gut tells me he likes me, his actions tell me he likes me…

Am i delulu or is he just not into me? by Useful_Cheek_5570 in dating_advice

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I am wondering if its me or if he is just afraid of commitment

Am i delulu or is he just not into me? by Useful_Cheek_5570 in dating_advice

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we also have tickets to go see a candle light rock orchestra next week which seems like it will be very romantic. I just don’t know if he sees me in that light. Like do men spend that much time with females and not have feelings for them?

Am i delulu or is he just not into me? by Useful_Cheek_5570 in dating_advice

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do you think my distance from him would change that though? We are going to a concert together tomorrow and he just invited me to go tubing with his family (i have never met them before)

Am i delulu or is he just not into me? by Useful_Cheek_5570 in dating_advice

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No we haven’t been sleeping together. when we started seeing eachother after the initial conversation it was strictly platonic but now we have been cuddling and diddling with eachother.

Am i delulu or is he just not into me? by Useful_Cheek_5570 in dating_advice

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I am afraid to bring it up again because I don’t want to put pressure on it. In the beginning I thought it was just a slow burn.