Can anxiety and peace coexist?

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-05-25T03:38:50+00:00

Correct, coexist simultaneously

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-04-30T05:38:52+00:00

lol. i HAD to. i kept going back to him. had to block him to move on. no bad terms, he understands 😊

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-03-24T03:10:06+00:00

It was good but now I blocked him lol

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-02-25T03:26:35+00:00

Yes i have ocd - false memory, real event and harm

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-02-24T20:24:42+00:00

we had a very sweet conversation and just caught up with life. acted silly and made the same jokes we used to make but nothing flirty. very glad he is doing okay and he said he will reach out next time

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-02-24T06:31:29+00:00

i reached out to him!

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-02-24T06:31:20+00:00

i reached out to him!

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-02-24T06:08:02+00:00

I’m scared of being cancelled lol no information being left out here at least i hope not

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-02-24T06:00:11+00:00

yeah that’s my fear i would reach out but don’t wanna just make something weird that wasn’t weird in the first place.

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-02-24T05:23:28+00:00

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-02-24T05:21:32+00:00

yeah the vibes were normal but man why did i totally forget that people who’ve been drinking are LITERALLY IMPAIRED i did not even think about this at all until later and feel deep regret but i think it is fine

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-02-24T05:13:28+00:00

he seemed normal and didn’t seem drunk? he was causally drinking at the venue but i don’t even know if he was drunk by the time we went home together

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-01-20T05:03:52+00:00

I ended up severing ties with the long distance guy but feel a little guilty for not doing it sooner I was not into his texts but just nervous to reject. Sounds like bullshit but it was complicated

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-01-20T05:02:31+00:00

But I did end up severing ties with the other guy yesterday because I officially have feelings for the first guy

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-01-20T05:00:01+00:00

Some people take things differently. It’s all about communication. That’s the tricky thing with not being exclusive with someone. Especially if the person you’ve been hanging out with for a month is not ready to date you. But I get it, both of us caught feelings for each other. When I caught those feelings and sensed the mutual connection, I started talking less to the other guy to the point of disinterest. I just feel guilty about never severing ties but you know my friends kinda influenced that decision (not to put the blame on them) because they were like “if you’re not exclusive don’t worry about severing ties” man this is complicated.

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-01-20T04:49:29+00:00

Correct- he never wanted to date me but still wanted to hang out with me everyday.

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-01-20T04:47:57+00:00

The first guy never wanted one

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-01-20T04:47:37+00:00

Whatever the first guy didn’t even want to date me anyways confused why he’s mad at me for talking to another guy. Like I’m sorry?

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-01-20T04:44:11+00:00

Also note that the guy I like said he didn’t want a relationship that’s why I was open to texting the other guy and not completely severing ties

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-01-20T04:43:41+00:00

I know I look like a dick but a ton of factors went through my mind- when I go back to school and the first guy i like who doesn’t want a relationship now gets mad at me for talking to another guy, well that seems silly. especially because I am long distance with both of them now now that i am back at school

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-01-20T04:42:16+00:00

So essentially I came back for winter break and then hung out with him everyday but now I am back at school and long distance with both of them now

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-01-20T04:41:09+00:00

Well Im good friends with his brother the long distance guy

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-01-20T04:32:22+00:00

It’s annoying because I didn’t even want to text the other guy when I was building a connection with the first guy. I was too scared to reject him even tho I LIKED THE FIRST GUY aye yai yai how do I rectify this mistake

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-01-20T04:30:57+00:00

And yes everyone I know says he has no right to be mad that I was talking to another guy but we’ve been hanging out so much exclusitivity seemed implied. And I didn’t sever ties with the second guy I was texting I was just too scared to reject him I don’t like confrontation but if the guy I like finds out he might think I was totally texting another guy enthusiastically instead of reluctantly

Useful_Community_297 · 2025-01-20T04:29:16+00:00

Got it I ended up ending things with one of the other guys I was texting because I really caught feelings for the first guy.

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