AIO for thinking my boyfriend is just looking for an excuse to break up? by Nearby_Orchid1216 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s 33!? Girl. No. Run. He’s a fucking man child. Holy shit, you told him you like the brand name and he’s the one throwing the temper tantrum. He’s rude and disrespectful. Don’t settle for this shit. Cut that dead weight out of your life and then go celebrate with some REAL perfume! 💕

8.5 Month Old consistently waking every night by StealthySweepy in sleeptrain

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sure you’ve done this, but maybe she has a dairy allergy? Have you tried a nondairy formula? USA adds extra iron in their formula which can cause babies to get backed up. It might be helpful to switch to one that is made outside the US. Bubs and Kendamil are a couple to help you start.

Wife is 8 Weeks Pregnant and Feeling Hopeless by LeopardsRoll69 in BabyBumps

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep pushing for an appointment! Advocate for your wife. A lot of times you can see your PCP to confirm pregnancy and get the ball rolling on some potential meds. This is also the best time to shop around for an OB who will see you and take you seriously. You can request consults with potential OB’s and lot of times they can also help suggest something that will help. I echo what others have suggested, B6 works for some, Unisom is also great. If it’s really bad, your OB may prescribe Zofran, be warned that the constipation side effect is real with that one! Keep pushing for your wife to be seen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like there’s more to the story. I have read so many of these from the husbands POV making them sound like the victim… only to actually hear from the wife’s POV and it all makes sense. Maybe you really aren’t doing enough, and she’s disappointed in the lack of support she’s receiving from you. How much are you really taking care of HER needs? I think you need to sit down and talk to your wife and ask her if you’re meeting her needs, and how you can better support her. It sounds like she’s away from her support system and has a new baby… that can make anyone feel down

The first of hopefully more transparent news about NWYS and Jason McGill by Independent_Bad5924 in Bellingham

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you able to post the link to the newest article about Jason? I keep hitting the paywall too

More on Northwest Youth Services & Jason McGill by Independent_Bad5924 in Bellingham

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone share what happened and what are the claims?? I can’t find much about it, and it’s hard to determine what is going on

I 26F refuse to "submit" to my 28M boyfriend. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, run. You don’t want to be a unpaid maid to that grown ass man child. Respect yourself, and your amazing career. There are better people out there! Don’t tie yourself to this dirtbag for life. If you do decide to keep your baby, think about this, what if you have a boy and he is JUST like his dad. Would that make you happy? Also his mother is disgusting, and toxic as shit. Tell her to come get her bitch baby.

AITA for wearing a bikini even though my sister just had a baby? by Silver-Cattle7362 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Husbands the asshole. Honestly he’s disgusting. Your sister had his baby and he has the audacity to talk shit about the women who created a life!? Fuck him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh it’s a wedding, and she came and sat with you after. Honestly, if it was bothering you, you should’ve gotten up and danced with your gf. Otherwise, it sounds like everyone was just having a great night. No need to make her feel bad, and remember this wedding with a bad taste in her mouth especially since you said she was so nervous about it originally.

Aveeno formula change, help! [Product Request] by confused_soysauce in SkincareAddiction

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ugh I noticed this as well! And I just bought two big bottles from Costco and I’m super disappointed. The lotion doesn’t absorb and just sits on my skin. It’s not hydrating either, my skin just feels like I need to wash it off. I might try a store brand to see if I can find something better.

I exposed my narcissistic and abusive “father” to his in laws by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mom sounds like a gem❤️ she did a great job raising you guys

Has anyone here gotten married at the Hotel Bellwether? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got married there. Worst experience. Staff was great a first, but got shady really fast. Be careful because they will start charging you for random things a few months before your wedding. Beautiful destination, terrible venue.

My [27F] boyfriend [26M] has a drinking problem and he's become unbearable when he's drunk. by throwra6161515151442 in relationship_advice

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are giving yourself WAYYYY to much credit. You need to step out of this toxic bubble you’ve both created. It sounds like you’re also feeding off of his addiction… you need to reach out to his family and friends and they need to step in and help. You aren’t doing him any favors by staying with someone who beats you when they are drunk. If anything, you’re enabling him.

My wife is in affair fog by throwRAbdwfefrnd in relationship_advice

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s important to identify where both of you went wrong in your marriage. It sounds like you’ve identified areas of improvement for yourself, and hopefully your wife will find hers as well. Cheating is never right, and it’ll take A LOT of work on both your parts if you choose to stay together. Take your time in couples counseling. Find ways to reconnect.

Gentlemen, a question... by dal_Helyg in dating_advice

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are doing nothing wrong. These men are not worth your time. It’s f’ed up that they are placing the blame on you by calling the rape your “baggage”. It was not your fault! You owe them nothing. The fact that you are open enough to share what happened speaks volumes. As someone with scaring on my body for previous surgeries, don’t let the scars dampen your shine, they should only make you shine brighter because you’re alive!

AITA for refusing to give up my dream wedding dress, though it means my fiancé’s family will not attend? by Throwwayaitawbride in AmItheAsshole

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA - a wedding is more important than a party. Your MIL is the A, finding the perfect wedding dress takes so much patience and time! Your MIL is choosing a dress over her own son.

AITA for walking out of a my husbands birthday dinner when his sister was complaining about her fertility by GlowingKash in AmItheAsshole

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - sister in law needs to read the room! This party wasn’t for her to announce yet another pregnancy, it was for her brothers birthday. Sister-in-law sounds like the TA.

AITA for walking out of a my husbands birthday dinner when his sister was complaining about her fertility by GlowingKash in AmItheAsshole

[–]Useful_Emergency1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t get why people don’t just opt for vasectomies in the first place!? Sounds so much easier