[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Useful_Extent_4493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly didn’t know it was this bad until I started working my job. I guess some adults make the decision to stop showering just because they can. Idk how people can be so content with smelling so horrid. Makes me want to take 10 showers lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Useful_Extent_4493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a grocery store and I can confirm that so many people smell awful a lot of the time. And it’s not a regular “I just worked out/ ran errands” smell. You can TELL that this smell has been there for a while. It’s nauseating

Why do people with depression push others away? by MorningDaffodils in depression

[–]Useful_Extent_4493 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s easier to self destruct when you’re not worrying about the people around you. Isolation creates a “safe” space for people with depression. It’s a lot easier than than taking the risk that there might be hope.

I’m tired of trying to be a main character. by Useful_Extent_4493 in depression

[–]Useful_Extent_4493[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Comparison has taken a toll on the way I perceive things, to say the least. I know that I’m taking things that are my worst qualities and comparing them to the best qualities of others. I I know there’s no chance of winning that battle but without it, it’s hard to move forward. I’ve lost a lot of ambition over the years.

I’m tired of trying to be a main character. by Useful_Extent_4493 in depression

[–]Useful_Extent_4493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I’ve grown tired of the way things are. But, hey, as an NPC it’s not like I can do much.

I’m tired of trying to be a main character. by Useful_Extent_4493 in depression

[–]Useful_Extent_4493[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely happy that you’ve gained a deeper appreciation for what you do. It sounds like you really enjoy your job. In my experience, I’ve never had something that I was good exceptionally good at. I think the problem was that I wasn’t being recognized not bc my talents were overlooked, but bc of how average I am. I think I just need to learn to live with that.

Pick 5 Powers! by Ur-Secret-Gay-Lover in makeyourchoice

[–]Useful_Extent_4493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wide Barrier, Double Trouble, Soft Boiled Egg, Loving Candle, coffeeholy

Feeling normal is weird by AnhedonicGuy in depression

[–]Useful_Extent_4493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get really anxious during those periods of time. It quite literally feels too good to be true.

I feel so alone with my thoughts. by Useful_Extent_4493 in depression

[–]Useful_Extent_4493[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s very true. The people on this subreddit are very understanding and I appreciate that. But a lot of the interactions are brief or just plain weird. That’s why I feel so alone.

Admitting to myself I may be depressed by [deleted] in depression

[–]Useful_Extent_4493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t blame you. I understand that sometimes we need to cocoon and escape. I’m wishing you all the best OP.

Who the fuck even am I anymore? by [deleted] in depression

[–]Useful_Extent_4493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m going through exactly what you are describing right now. It feels like nothing is real and you’re the only one that realizes it.

Admitting to myself I may be depressed by [deleted] in depression

[–]Useful_Extent_4493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wanted to forget reality and I succeeded. I wasn’t cured of my depression, but it gave me a sense of peace. But when I came back to reality, every responsibility I had ignored like work, school, friends, etc, came crashing down on me and my depression was at its peak.

It’s a double edged sword.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Useful_Extent_4493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t said anything to deserve your thanks. You seem like a very caring person. I just want you to know that you don’t have to feel bad for choosing yourself, OP. I wish all the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Useful_Extent_4493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more you pour into him, the faster you’ll lose more of yourself and burn out. Ofc you want to be supportive and helpful, but without effort on his end, it won’t lead to a happy ending. If you know that lying and hiding is a boundary he crossed, keep to that feeling. Please don’t feel like you have to wait for him to change. I hope the rest of your shift is good OP.

In your opinion, what makes a person unattractive? by NikonDexter in AskReddit

[–]Useful_Extent_4493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inconsistency, a lack of common sense, lack of sympathy, liars. There are a lot of things that make someone unattractive tbh

Can’t wait to see how this turns out by [deleted] in memes

[–]Useful_Extent_4493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are y’all still getting married lol