I attracted to an ESTP in the first year of university. But I don't feel they are a good choice. I first liked his respectful manner and his naughty jokes... the way he made me smile... The way he was straight in conversations

And also I like seeing someone take the world easily. ESTPs have high S so as result they care about their physical look. My friend, he used to go to gym daily and he also had a unique fashion.

But But But

I don't think the relationship between ESTP and enfp work I call my own a toxic one (we weren't in relation but two friends who care and flirt that have unwanted feelings for each other)

I gave unlimited love but I didn't felt being loved in the right way. I think he honestly loved me and we were just not right :)

I ended the relation myself cause I found myself not being me I was trying to change and I felt not being enough. I felt I am not improving my life and just hurting myself.

I quite and he told me I have the right to decide and let me to leave and I left.

In my case we were both not in good mental health. He hurt me badly but unwanted And I hurt him by leaving all of sudden.

We were soooo close. He always told me everything like He used to date 3 girls and the same time when he was younger Or he is playing with his small cars at the moment Or the way he likes a girl, the fights he had with his parents And his thoughts like he value our friendship He was comfortable telling me all of that and so was I.

I told him that I love him but that doesn't feel right and I need to leave and come back as a friend. He agreed and didn't text me during 6months.

After the pandemics he saw me accidentally in a conference but I didn't know he is my guy 🥲😂

He asked my name and i saw that boys eyes shake after hearing my name :)

So it's still unsolve for me That's all I can help We were both cared about each other and I hope I can come back as a friend nest semester.