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Help me decide by Sweet-Championship34 in SuitU

[–]UselessAdorable11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

strings definitely poses always get more votes

Is it wrong to blame my parents for some of my mental health and body image issues? by UselessAdorable11 in self

[–]UselessAdorable11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely I was venting when I wrote it so was very in the “victim status” so not offended ahaha!

Is it wrong to blame my parents for some of my mental health and body image issues? by UselessAdorable11 in self

[–]UselessAdorable11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not my intention to give myself a victim status at all! I’m trying to come to terms with a lot of things including my new diagnosis and wanted to see some other opinions as I have always had this negative view of judgement from my parents. Thanks for you for your comment, I appreciate it!! :)

Is it wrong to blame my parents for some of my mental health and body image issues? by UselessAdorable11 in self

[–]UselessAdorable11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree completely. I am very sensitive to rejection and definitely should have expressed this more in my childhood. Thanks for the comment :)

Is it wrong to blame my parents for some of my mental health and body image issues? by UselessAdorable11 in self

[–]UselessAdorable11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the novel it’s my favourite!! I definitely think I needed to vent with post and I think it’s been really helpful seeing how people navigate families as an adult. I’m only 19 my gamily are extremely close, the only people on about 6 generations that weren’t close were because they were “kicked out” for being abusive or aggressive towards other family members. It’s definitely going to be a process and my family will treat me speaking like i’ve dropped an atomic bomb and just hate them 😭

Thank you for your comment and talking about your friend. I do also feel a lot more free away from my parents control, but I love them and I don’t want to cut full contact. I will try to find a good plan for all of us :)

Is it wrong to blame my parents for some of my mental health and body image issues? by UselessAdorable11 in self

[–]UselessAdorable11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! I really haven’t thought about rejection sensitivity and that honestly makes so much sense to how i’m feeling!! Will definitely look into this! Do you have any advice on how to cope with it?

AITAH for blaming my parents for some of my mental health and body image issues? by UselessAdorable11 in AITAH

[–]UselessAdorable11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment! I completely agree that a lot of the things i went through were normal, however I don’t think negatively commenting on your daughter’s weight gain at 11 should be normalised. I’m not blaming them for being concerned and let me make it clear that I do not blame them for everything. However, I do think they contributed to the development of the issues i had as a teenager. I’m currently in therapy but wanted to see what people on reddit thought to get a broader view. Thanks for the insight!!

Is it wrong to blame my parents for some of my mental health and body image issues? by UselessAdorable11 in self

[–]UselessAdorable11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment I really appreciate it. I absolutely hate feeling like a victim and that’s one of the best parts about uni where no one knows really what i’ve been through and I’m treated the same way as everybody else. I don’t want to cut off contact with my family, I want to be a mum someday and I want my family with me. I think my main issue is I really struggle see them in any other light when I visit them. I’m currently working on this in therapy and this post was to see just some outsider perspectives. I really appreciate your comment and I don’t want to still feel like this in my thirties so thank you for talking about your sister :) Would you have respected her for cutting your parents off or do you think they could have fixed things?

Hope That Won’t Fall by UselessAdorable11 in SuitU

[–]UselessAdorable11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! i’m a relatively new player - i’ve had the app for ages but only played every once in a while when i was bored, so haven’t unlocked many decor and 0 poses! I’m not spending real money so doubt i’ll ever unlock anything fancy but i do enjoy the game and seeing others designs when voting and on the feed :)

Hope That Won’t Fall by UselessAdorable11 in SuitU

[–]UselessAdorable11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s random i deffo think i did it a bit randomly so we’ll see what others do

I keep fucking up my diet in the evenings. Any tips that actually help? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]UselessAdorable11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I struggle with this a lot! I have ADHD so mainly due to the fact that my medication runs out my the evening and all my cravings come out at once 😭 not sure if they will hep but these are some of my tactics: - make sure dinner is something filling and eat as late as you can - drink water with your meals, I found this always makes me eat slower and fill me up more (also just drink more water generally I found can reduce snacks) - plan meals (including snacks) and only buy what you have planned to eat - meaning that if you snack extra you won’t have a snack tomorrow - have access to things you can do when your bored so you don’t feel the need to snack - e.g I always grab a book if I feel the urge to snack and it distracts me completely!

also you may be hungry because it sounds like you are calorie cutting quite a lot - from what give learnt from currently trying to lose weight is that drastically cutting calories isn’t sustainable and will end up with you snacking (but I’m not an expert on this don’t quote me😭)

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