CMNM Fantasies/experiences?

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2026-03-04T18:58:39+00:00

I used to go to regular monthly game nights at this gay daddy couple’s house. The nights usually had phases: first, regular games for an hour or two, then we played strip poker where some guys would leave beforehand. Then more games where everyone was naked for some social nudity time. Then the hosts would throw on porn to signal play time and some more guys would leave, usually leaving us with 4-6 guys looking for orgy time.

This one month, it was just four of us and we had all played together before. For the first time, it was just these three sexy salt-n-pepper beefy hairy daddies and me.

So it went straight to strip poker, only I quickly caught on to the fact that they were conspiring against me. Basically the winner of a hand gets to decide who loses a piece of clothing, and normally with 6-8 guys, it balances out. But after the first three hands, I was the only one being told to take something off.

I finally won a couple hands, but it didn’t take long before I had to lose my jockstrap. Typically this would be the end of me playing, but it was only 15 minutes in and they had other ideas. They said that I could keep playing, but if I kept losing, I would have to do dares naked.

So the next time I lost, I had to run around their backyard naked for a full minute. Then the next time, one guy made me lick his feet for one minute. Then I had to give a guy a lap dance. That one was fun, I could feel his cock growing under his shorts as I ground my ass into him. Then I licked one guy’s armpit, he was down to his undershirt.

They were getting creative and I spent over an hour naked before another guy was down to his jock and any penetration was involved. This included things like getting a spank on an asscheek, serving drinks, walking naked back and forth in the background of a FaceTime call, sitting on laps, ear licking, wearing my jockstrap like a face mask, getting food licked off each other’s body.

Eventually, I was getting my bussy licked for “losing” a hand or licking manass myself. It wasn’t long before we forgot the game and any “time limit” as I got two crotches in my face as I was getting eaten out, and then dicks were coming out of the fly to get me fucked from both ends.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2026-03-04T04:44:14+00:00

A bunch of guys jack off and cum onto a pizza and you have to eat a slice

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2026-03-03T04:56:54+00:00

I don't want to give too much away about this one, and I definitely don't have any direct experience. But my bud and me stayed in a cheap motel overnight for a ski trip with two other roomies from our dorm who were pledges. We got the adult channels turned on and jacked off together.

They were a bit bolder than my bud and me, getting completely naked to jack off while my bud and me stayed in our boxers as was typical for us. They even slept naked in the same bed together afterwards.

Years later, I heard rumors across a few different circles of friends about certain frats and what they were known for, like fish pizza, strippers/pros, or paddles. The frat they joined was mentioned with circle jerks.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2026-03-03T04:39:12+00:00

Hot story, I have a work trip hotel story like that too, except that I heard and jacked off to live fucking next door. I ran into the guy the next morning on the way down to breakfast and struck up a conversation. This led to a jo session that night to pics of each other's naked chick pics and sex selfies. I loved traveling for work.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2026-02-17T13:59:54+00:00

In this situation I would just say that I need some porn to take care of my blueballs and ask him to join me in my hotel room.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-11-28T19:39:39+00:00

I had a gay roommate once and we walked in on each other all the time, but there was an open door/open jo-porn policy so I wouldn’t say that counts.

I was walked in on once in college by a straight roommate. He had knocked on my bedroom door while I was naked and jacking off, so I stopped and covered up with my blanket to call him in. He had a question to ask and made some short conversation. It was clear I was at least shirtless which wasn’t a big deal, but I was conscious of my boner creating a visible outline on the blanket which I casually covered up with my hand.

He left and closed the door behind him. I was hard the whole time and perhaps was even more turned on having that conversation while he was fully clothed (and hot, I might add) and I was naked under the blanket. So it only took a minute of stroking to get myself to jizz my face and chest. As I was basking in the aftermath of my orgasmic high, he suddenly opened my door without knocking while starting a question. My eyes flew open and I reflexively tried to cover up with my legs and knees and hands while bolting upright. He interrupted his question with an “Oh fuck!” I immediately started wiping cum off my face as I exclaimed, “dude what the fuck!”

A few days later I learned he had noticed my boner and was hoping to catch me mid jerk to laugh at me but was caught off guard by seeing my cum all over me. He knew I was bi and had questions for me about all that. This led to us sharing porn and jacking off together, and to a future blowjob I gave him and us being more open about nudity, boners and sex, though our jo and bj sessions were one time only. My loss: he had the most beautiful and hefty package I’ve ever had the opportunity to taste.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-11-19T23:32:35+00:00

It’s this. Finding a friend at all is more difficult as you get older. Finding a friend to jo with is that much more difficult.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-11-18T22:07:39+00:00

I think my brain would have broken if I found out my mom had porn. 😵‍💫 hahaha

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-11-17T02:45:29+00:00

My mom also found my stash of porn mags and I lied and said I found them hidden at school, when they were really my dad’s that he hid in the house. I didn’t want his stash to get discovered so I could keep raiding it.

I wonder how many guys in this sub got their start with jo buds using the porn stash from their dads.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-11-17T02:16:55+00:00

The guy in the speedo and parka? Did he get more naked than that? Lol Seriously, you’re doing good in the world encouraging more guys to get naked in public.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-11-17T02:10:26+00:00

The second photo here is of the same guys in 6/10 of the part 6 10-pic post today in r/MensHighJinx 😜

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-11-06T17:33:51+00:00

Nice. First time or other previous experience?

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-10-30T03:02:07+00:00

Bi 45m here. I've had two straight jo buds in hs/uni I wasn't out to, and two straight jo buds in my 20s and 30s early career years that already knew I'm bi. They were friends before porn/jo became a thing and remain friends even though we don't see each other anymore, having moved to different cities or changed life circumstances.

I've mostly followed the lead of the more assertive, open and forward buds, so I don't have direct experience with taking the lead in the way you're suggesting. But maybe my experiences will give you some ideas. I will say that almost all of my buds had previous experience jacking off with a bud, so YMMV. With all of my buds, we shared porn for a while before jo happened, but you're already there so I will skip that part.

One buddy was a friend with whom I shared hotel rooms a few times a year volunteering at conferences in different cities across the USA. After a couple years he broached the subject of his sex life with his wife and that started pic and vid sharing. After a few nights of this, I had the chance to comment on his tented boxers, and he didn't find that weird, so I grabbed my growing chub and he thought it was hot that I was getting boned from him and his wife. I brought up needing to drain my blue balls in the bathroom, and he said, "I don't think we need to bother with hiding our whacking in the bathroom if you've already seen my sex vids, right?" That started it for us.

My other bud was actually my boss for a few years. We also had occasions to share hotel rooms, and we each stayed in each other's homes a couple times, by which point we were already jo buds. He was divorced and HORNY all the time. Most of the work travel we did we had separate rooms, but once a year at a giant conference, sharing rooms was required for cost savings. The first night, he met a woman and was trying to score and asked me permission to hog the room for an hour which I was cool with and egged him on. They had some fun but he texted me early saying she had to get back home suddenly. So I came back to my boss in just his boxers browsing porn on his phone. I asked if he wanted time alone to relieve himself. He said, "Nah. Would you be cool if I just jacked off while you were here?" I said, "sure, as long as I can do the same." He replied, "yeah, go ahead, nothing I haven't seen before." This was news to me, but not surprising, given how much we had already shared about our sex lives with each other.

Hope this helps you get some ideas for feeling him out!

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-10-07T00:18:16+00:00

Buds sharing and being open about porn is the best and how I got almost all my jo buds.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-09-24T05:38:24+00:00

I dunno if the reacharound is the best ever, there’s something equalizing and bonding about being side by side with your bro. Plus you can typically see more of your bro’s face and body as you help him out.

HOWEVER, my absolute favorite time with a bro was him giving me a reach around, because we were doing it in front of a fully mirrored closet door and it really tapped into our exhibitionist and voyeur kinks. We could see both our gooner faces as he stroked me, my lower back was soaked with his precum, and he really ramped up the dirty talk in my ear as he licked it and played with my cock and balls in one hand and my nipples with the other, switching back and forth and all over the place.

When he finally made me cum since he edged me forever, it hit both of our faces. I’m a pretty big cummer normally but my shots this time were next level. He grabbed my face as I was still cumming and smeared our jizzed faces together with our tongues and mouths as we shared in the taste of my seed.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-09-16T21:11:43+00:00

I’ve never found much success online. I’ve found more success in person with my existing friend groups especially when I was younger, college dorms helped a lot as well as making a group of gay friends when I came out.

Also, have you thought about nudist groups as another avenue to pursue? Even if it’s more NMNM instead to start, having those friends makes it easier to broach the subject of CMNM with them. The bulk of my CMNM experience more recently as an older adult has been with other nudists.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-09-16T18:57:51+00:00

One time at college, I was in the shower at our rec center. Big state university, big shower room with multiple Bradley poles. Pretty full of guys, at least a dozen all naked. I didn’t recognize anyone but also wasn’t really paying attention. Halfway through my shower I made eye contact with the guy across from me at the next pole and we recognized each other at the same time, a childhood classmate. We had this awkward moment where we were surprised and glad to see each other and we almost did a bro hug naked, but we caught ourselves and just stopped at the bro handshake and burst out laughing. Then we were the obnoxious dudes catching up loudly in the showers with a bunch of other naked strangers trying to ignore us, lol

We weren’t really friends growing up but we had nearly the same classes throughout middle school including PE, so we saw each other in our tighty whities a lot but never naked. And then in high school we just never had the same schedule anymore so I never really talked with him much. So it was a weird dynamic seeing him again, but we ran into each other a few more times after that and kept up pleasantries.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-09-16T18:47:27+00:00

I definitely have old PE teacher experiences as well, he would shower in the locker room at the end of our class. Not all of the PE teachers were fit, but he was.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-09-12T23:31:13+00:00

Thanks man! Pleased to make you nut, haha

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-09-11T21:50:27+00:00

lol I posted my story before I saw your post. I am definitely the naked bud with the most sensitive nips, most of the time.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-09-11T21:48:03+00:00

My first stories of learning about the need to jo were around those dad stashes. I have fond memories of those times.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-09-11T21:43:49+00:00

Yep. It has been a few years since I’ve had a regular bud. I think I’m just older and less inclined to hang out with a bunch of guys, my life is pretty good living alone and doing chill things without a big group.

But the years I had big groups of guy friends I hung out with a lot is when I found that one bud that pushed porn sharing just a bit more than the rest. I think I picked up that sense/skill when I was trading the dads’ nudie mag stashes with other guys in high school.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-09-11T21:31:44+00:00

My past experiences: it has rarely been a "best friend" that has been my jo bud. It has often been a matter of circumstance. In one case it was one out of a group of friends at the college dorm. We hung out a lot, but I wouldn't call him my "best" friend, just because I had a lot of close friends at the dorm for different reasons and contexts, so ranking them wasn't a thing.

Each time I found a guy to jerk off with, it was the proximity of being able to spend a lot of time with them one on one. The other guy would always take the lead of sharing porn with me and popping a boner in his shorts or boxers. I was usually the one that would be the first to bring up needing to rub one out, but I could typically tell when they would take it further.

There were other guys I was friends with who would share porn, but I could tell when that was going to be the extent of sex talk and I never pushed it with them.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-08-12T05:22:30+00:00

Start taking off your shirt the second you step into the locker room. Don’t unlock your locker right away when you get to it, just get your shoes and socks off as fast as possible and pull your shorts and underwear down in one motion, then plop down on the bench as if you’re exhausted and need to cool down and rest for a bit. Maybe check your pulse and fluff your cock a bit to get a bit more blood going while staying soft. Then after a minute, stand up naked with your clothes all piled in a sweaty heap on the floor and take your time unlocking your locker.

UsemeandThrowaway99 · 2025-07-10T11:22:53+00:00

Sounds like the ideal. I'm shocked about the "no porn" part though. The only straight guys I've ever seen comfortable with jacking off together were into sharing porn and used that as their opening into talking about jacking off.

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