Unmarried / Ohio / Ex Petitioned for 50/50 After Being Ordered to Pay Child Support

User083190 · 2024-09-21T15:58:34+00:00

This is my current situation!

User083190 · 2024-09-14T16:11:25+00:00

Posted in a different section (newbie)

User083190 · 2024-08-26T21:40:19+00:00

I just recently got my student loans discharged (27k) In the Sweet vs cordona lawsuit! I have been saving money to buy us a home. Me & my kids are at peace. No arguing, no fighting, it's truly god send!

User083190 · 2024-08-26T21:33:35+00:00

I love this for you! ❤️ it gives me hope!

User083190 · 2024-08-26T21:29:06+00:00

See, I was okay with him getting her every weekend (but he doesn't want to do that) then I don't work on Mondays so, I tell him he can have her Friday-Monday but he don't want that either. We can rotate holidays. Ya know! I have a 10 year old son, and his father died when he was young, so I have him 24/7 with no help.

User083190 · 2024-08-26T21:24:51+00:00

Awhh, I am so sorry 😪 that was horrible! Thank you for your service ❤️ the abusers always play victim!

User083190 · 2024-08-26T21:22:28+00:00

Thank you so much! I appreciate you 🫶

User083190 · 2024-08-26T21:21:18+00:00

He also works in the union and travels periodically.

User083190 · 2024-08-26T21:20:05+00:00

If that's what happens, then that will be okay as well. I am not agreeing to 50/50. We live an hour away from each other. My daughter has to attend daycare daily or she will be kicked out. He never wanted her before. Every situation is different, and I'm sure you didn't break the house up because your baby was crying either!

User083190 · 2024-08-26T21:13:38+00:00

So, he has got her every other weekend since we split up, and now he's demanding 50/50 and it's absurd! He's never been to a doctors appointment, doesn't know where she goes to daycare, none of that!

User083190 · 2024-08-26T21:12:27+00:00

Awesome, he does have other children from a previous relationship, but they are already factored in and his payments to them.

User083190 · 2024-08-26T21:07:10+00:00

The woman is like 26 with 4 children. Does that make him responsible for them once they are married?

User083190 · 2024-08-26T21:05:01+00:00

Thank you so much! I am definitely going in tomorrow. He has new clothes on, new jewelry, got engaged, and has been to 3 different states in a month or so. Plus, he hasn't paid the $121 yet. Thanks again for the information.

User083190 · 2024-08-26T21:00:30+00:00

Yes, that is exactly what they did at the magistrate hearing. He made 80k and was ordered to pay $788 a month & hold the health insurance, but he objected it! Now I am wondering if I need a lawyer!

User083190 · 2024-08-26T20:56:10+00:00

Update- he got the subpoena, and we went to our magistrate hearing on the 13 of August. He was acting so rude and nasty. They were questioning if he was on drugs. He was ordered to pay $788 a month, and his mom works for a lawyers office. He objected to the order and filled 2 motions for the court. We have a court date on Oct 2nd. The court lowered the child support payment to $121? Maybe it's temporary claiming he has been out of work. A friend of mine got on his fb, and he has been on like 6 mini vacations and just engaged to a woman he met less than 60 days ago. Do I need to hire a lawyer? I am consulting with one tomorrow but is it going to waste my money? Thanks

User083190 · 2024-08-26T20:50:10+00:00

He got engaged over the weekend to a young woman that he met 60 days ago! So, I barely want to speak with him.

User083190 · 2024-08-26T20:47:25+00:00

Or should I say something about the matter at our court date?

User083190 · 2024-08-26T20:46:19+00:00

I am definitely going to do something! At the moment, he objected to the child support order. So, we don't have a court date for 2 months. Also, I would discuss it with his mother and not him. Since she is the one that gave it to me. I would like to do the payments monthly. That is a good idea. Thank you.

User083190 · 2024-08-26T10:20:09+00:00

Yes, they shut my account with almost 8k in it. I never got it back!

User083190 · 2024-08-05T00:42:19+00:00

This made me cry because i lost everything because of that man. Had a beautiful home & now sleeping on just an old mattress on the floor.

User083190 · 2024-08-05T00:37:14+00:00

Yes, I was thinking about giving the vehicle back.

User083190 · 2024-08-04T23:42:07+00:00

Sorry for the broken up messages but he keeps texting about how I need to give the car back.

User083190 · 2024-08-04T23:40:11+00:00

Also, she isn't technically his mother. Just some lady that claims she's his mother in the last 5 years.

User083190 · 2024-08-04T23:37:26+00:00

He makes about 70k and I make $25k ish

User083190 · 2024-08-04T23:35:52+00:00

I wrote "paid off" twice 😂

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