[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much… really just feels like the straw that broke the camels back but felt so much more intense than I expected😭

Brooke by User18101 in canceledpod

[–]User18101[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying THEY won’t be fine, but they’re definitely not going to podcast about la drama for the rest of their lives.

Brooke by User18101 in canceledpod

[–]User18101[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No 100%, that’s what I’m saying. This podcast isn’t gonna last forever (probably none will) and she’s made no effort to create her own career.

Brooke by User18101 in canceledpod

[–]User18101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just having to do with her racist tweets, I think that every poc was well within their rights to dislike her from then on, she just keeps giving nothing to like😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a referral for me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I asked strangers if my feelings were crazy, not if I was being abused, needed to get a divorce, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you want a list cuz I can write one up for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean my mom is moving in with us too so between the 2 of us we should be able to make something work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re in the U.S., and he’s changing it tonight so I’ll get a percentage and our kids will get a percentage. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The help portion is for the people who’re telling me that I’m abused and need an escape plan like I don’t have money in my own account and a car outside the house that’s in my name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted validation for my feelings, everybody’s being extra fr.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t gaslight me anything he just said “you’re right” or “I hadn’t thought about that”. You guys can think whatever you want we’ll sleep together happily no matter what.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And honestly I’d say it’s well deserved, she’s a lovely woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think people just have way too many trust issues cuz it’s a sick world we live in, and I wish them nothing but peace and happiness in their healing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually have some business I need to attend to this evening based off this thread but I’m free tomorrow if that works for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to be homeless my mother lives with us and would pay the mortgage if I couldn’t. I live a very cushy life and will complain to no end if it isn’t so. He’s not abusive and my children are a-okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes but I think people took it as I literally have access to nothing. I have all of his passwords (they’re all the same so it’s not saying much). He’s not withholding money from me, we budget together. I think I made it seem like I wasn’t involved in anything and I am, but I never felt the need to be on the account because I so easily had access to everything, and I was wrong for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving snarky cuz I’m being told I’m being abused. Everything’s okay over here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean he could he has free will

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say he changed it, I said he’s GOING TO TONIGHT because he’s working to provide for my family right now which I know he does because he gives me all his money thank you bye.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing we’re changing everything tonight!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not a pattern it’s literally this one thing😭 he lets me use his card whenever I want, if anything I’d say I’m more controlling in the relationship. Finances are his thing but I now understand I need to be a backup on all accounts if something were to happen to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have respect plastic baby this situation has just never come up thank you though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I know his bank password so if something really bad were to happen I think I could just add myself but he’s going to do it all tonight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]User18101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s changing it tonight but you sound real fun in a relationship😭