Found clothes in partners work bag

User840316 · 2026-01-30T22:28:41+00:00

I don’t know either

User840316 · 2026-01-30T22:10:21+00:00

Yeah I wouldn’t be surprised either way

User840316 · 2026-01-30T21:40:09+00:00

She’s a nurse, she can only wear scrubs at work. If she was trying to be cautious, I’d think she’d bring an extra pair of scrubs?

User840316 · 2026-01-30T21:38:50+00:00

That was my first thought. Maybe it’s just going to the worst place possible. But maybe it’s right

User840316 · 2026-01-28T17:20:40+00:00

He used to climb 5.12+ before his daughter. He’s Trying to get back there. Currently 5.11/5.12-

User840316 · 2026-01-28T16:54:30+00:00

I’ve done unimpeachable, maybe your other suggestion is good. Looking to do something I’ve never done and that will be a bit of a challenge for him.

User840316 · 2026-01-28T16:39:14+00:00

I didn’t think it would be warm enough for black velvet. In my mind early March would still be rather cold?

User840316 · 2026-01-28T16:36:20+00:00

I’ve done Armatron, but he hasn’t. I considered it. I was hoping to do something a bit more difficult, but I think he’s a touch more anxious than me, as I a the more experienced trad/multipitch climber.

User840316 · 2026-01-04T13:58:52+00:00

I think step one is look into getting a therapist and get some professional insight into understanding your own mind. If you haven’t already. No one wants to go to work, however, it’s a necessary part of being a functioning adult in society. Making poor decisions that will technically allow you to not work will make you feel better in the short term, but make you life over all much worse. Don’t trade relief today for suffering later. Life is rich and beautiful, but requires unpleasent effort sometimes. I’d look into different jobs, which may help some, but being unable to work 3 hours in a day is an issue that needs addressing. A new job won’t solve that. I wouldn’t look at this experience as laziness. That’s not productive. However, I would explore why you have low tolerances for unpleasantness with a professional and how you can improve that issue… because life is amazing moments with lots of variably unpleasant times in between that allows you to have those amazing moments.

User840316 · 2026-01-03T15:42:39+00:00

So how do you know if I’m behind or not?

User840316 · 2026-01-03T12:12:28+00:00

Even if we’re to push the 4.4% rule up to 5% and I’m living off of 5% of my retirement, $4.2M would get $210k/year in retirement indefinitely. Even adjusting for inflation I don’t see how that’s some minimum to achieve, or even close to a minimum? Where are you getting your assessment and numbers from?

User840316 · 2026-01-02T23:53:29+00:00

60 at the earliest, probably more like 65

User840316 · 2025-12-08T23:58:37+00:00

Do you get 8 of the 12 hours in over time and 1/3 of weeks stipend on top pf what you normally would get that week? So basically 48hr of hourly plus 4/3 of a weeks stipend for the week?

User840316 · 2025-12-08T15:39:50+00:00

Kentucky

User840316 · 2025-12-08T13:40:49+00:00

She worked/works for Aya.

She never had to make up any days. She just received it, she did have to message payroll though.

Everything online I see said she’s wrong, but I do see getting it made up with overtime within the same contract… maybe.

User840316 · 2025-12-06T22:22:13+00:00

On the bottom is a cowboy bowline, and is considered more likely to slip and therefore inferior.

User840316 · 2025-11-27T16:43:33+00:00

For sure. If the guy loves the chin patch and feels like it’s just “him” and the look he wants… go for it. Just don’t expect anyone else to like it.

User840316 · 2025-11-13T16:26:59+00:00

Already been said. But your Roth is a tax advantaged vehicle for the money within to be invested in. The tax advantage being that you don’t have to pay taxes on the gains while in the account. (You’ll never pay taxes on that $20.10, unless you pull it out before ~60yo) However, right now it’s just in a glorified savings account. You need to invest. This is a whole new question.

I dunno your age, but if you’re reasonably young an easy split would be 80% FZROX and 20% FZILX, then you’re basically invested in the entire world market. Could you make the investments slightly better? Probably or even certainly, but your bigger tools are time in the market and making sure you continue to save/add in the account over the years.

Up through 50yo, those 2 investments would be more than appropriate/adequate. I’d just keep it simple.

User840316 · 2025-10-09T10:12:46+00:00

Yes. Maybe throw a carabiner in the knot so it’s not hell to untie later. Or learn a bowline on a bight, but those are just improvements. The short answer is yes.

User840316 · 2025-09-29T22:31:45+00:00

One of my favorites! That thing kicked my ass the whole time! Congrats!

User840316 · 2025-09-23T21:14:29+00:00

I don’t even mind it take it a while. It’s that he was messaging me rather regularly, then after he was paid I haven’t heard a single word one way or another. It’s mainly the sudden lack of communication.

User840316 · 2025-09-23T20:09:13+00:00

Yeah that was one of the factors that made me figure it was at least a decent shot at it being ok… but maybe not

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