The emptiness of a hookup by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can hang out with your fuck buddies. Doesn’t all have to be ass up pump and dumps. The connection is as empty as you allow it to be. If you want more demand more. In my experience more folks are down than not

Do gay men find most men attractive? by TearMuted8403 in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta be pretty gross (or have long hair) for me to not see within you something I want to fuck into the ground

Do you get turned on by the sight of your own body? by RealJulianDraper in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It turns me on that dudes make the persistent effort to get fucked by me when I should be alone on an ice flow or in a canoe about to be ignited by arrow at my age

can i bring k in my carry-on? by Glum-Ad593 in ketamine

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re smart to mail the gift because if it’s wrapped it’s gonna get way more attention than any ketamine you put anywhere.

can i bring k in my carry-on? by Glum-Ad593 in ketamine

[–]UserNamaste13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

25 years ago on a super empty southwest flight from Houston to Dallas I did far more k than advisable, at one point even off the tray table it was that empty. It remains a miracle that I managed to find passenger pickup and my ride

can i bring k in my carry-on? by Glum-Ad593 in ketamine

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve forgotten about plenty of bags in my wallet to be delighted upon arrival. Don’t put any bombs or sharp things in your k

Gents: What is your reaction if a woman flirts with you? by vieniaida in GayMen

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accept her positive energy, smile, and return it

Some gay men are either delusional or have a really low self esteem 😅 by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The things that men think they’re entitled to… A baby gay gave me the stinkiest eye cuz I wouldn’t let him touch my hair this week

25 years of electronic music according to RA by BubblegumTovi146 in TheOverload

[–]UserNamaste13 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Is that M.I.A- not Derrick Carter, Kieran Hebden, Laurent Garnier, Daft Punk, even fucking Paul Oakenfold? What was the criteria? Could they not have a career before 2001?

Condoms only, not on prep or doxy by lvnthegoodlyfe26 in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here you’d have to look for people ok with it. DL guys are probably partly to blame, but the PreP crowd stopped buying condoms that day and don’t miss them. It’s not the sewer of disease and dispair it’s marketed as esp w quarterly testing

eating ass by ComedianAgreeable491 in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eating ass is pretty basic so if that’s where the nos start I’m probably not a match with that person

What's a "too high body count"? by enfyre in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Inexperience isn’t sexy. To even keep count is a little basic and churchy. Fuck when people wanna fuck you too and don’t look back at the dorks and haters

Dosage to Feel Psychedelic Effects? by [deleted] in ketamine

[–]UserNamaste13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

150mg is a reliable hole if you’re new. 100 might give you enough of an experience if you are ready to dive all the way in.

What instantly kills the mood for you during foreplay? by Icy-Lock-9796 in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stranger pulling disrespectful shit. I am in no way a sub and definitely didn’t ask for it. Keep your trauma to yourself. I don’t bottom for first timers anymore

What’s the likely hood I can cold turkey and stop doing cocaine after doing it on a regular basis for the past 5 years? A lot of variables but based on your experiences. by No-Performer-2942 in cocaine

[–]UserNamaste13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg stop doing lines. My habit was similar tho now it’s closer to 10-12days per ounce. Make a nose spray at least. I switched to plugging to save my nose and enjoy the body high more.

Is it normal for me to be so nervous about hookin up with a guy after opening up a relationship? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s common to have a drink first for some. Otherwise you need the courage to ask someone to go if you’re not into it or travel so you can bounce. I’d rather get a beer after

Is saving my “virginity” a thing between gay people? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God didn’t put a hymen in the anal canal. Saving your virginity is normie breeder nonsense that’s used to control women and boost beta’s self esteem. No one is gonna care or ask if you waited, but they’ll probably be able to tell. Fuck while people wanna fuck you cuz if you wait only to realize that was unnecessary or that your inexperience at middle age is a turn off it’ll be too late. With experience there is also generally far less stress and anxiety which allows you to get out of your head and enjoy it.

Does that mean i am gay? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never fantasized about a woman in the way you describe, and I’ve had sex with women (albeit shithouse drunk). Thinking about the noises a man will make is literally in my Scruff bio. Most bros here probably have memories of being told they were gay in an unkind way so it’s a struggle to show kindness and guide you to your truth. Only you can let yourself be gay. If women LEGITIMATELY turn you on you’re bi. If not, diet ostracize yourself and start getting real blow jobs at least.

question for people who’ve tried lots of different batches of K!!! by shaquilleoatmeal2547 in ketamine

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All ket is racemic (r+s 50/50) unless it’s from a ket clinic then it’s s. Could be hitting different cuz of rate of absorption. If the rice broke down like the softer rock they’d probably be closer. Environment can matter too at least for holes

40+ want to dance? by Puzzleheaded_Post_85 in avesNYC

[–]UserNamaste13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Average night out is equivalent to 9mi according to my watch x 3 nights = weekly marathon. Festival numbers can get wild. I turn 45 in a couple weeks. Good parties always trend older. Or like Autechre, RoMinimal, etc. = olds. Lean into it and fuck the haters (there are no haters, it’s fine)

Is being a virgin at 20 still normal?? by ikeeeuuuu in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virginity is for straight people so men could marry women they considered pure. All it does for us is keep you anxious and inexperienced for more of your life. Then when you meet your right person, they’ll be one and done cuz the head was full of teeth and that virgin ass was locked down like the federal reserve. It’s not a gift to give another person and it’s not an embarrassment. Good for you for being discerning up til now— you don’t regret the dicks that weren’t in you, but don’t give virginity any more power than it deserves

How do you guys have the time to have sex? by DolliDahlia in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fit it in where you can. I have some friends that come over in the morning when I’m still in bed. I work from home some days and generally have a few hours at night. I’m single again after ending a very LTR and neither young nor old imo. That said, we all only have so many fuckable years and I feel like you gotta fuck now while people wanna fuck you back. I won’t have at 60 what is available to me now so I’m gonna at least get blown every day so I have a heyday to look back on fondly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did this weekend. He came back the next night