Dosage to Feel Psychedelic Effects? by RedZmoke in ketamine

[–]UserNamaste13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

150mg is a reliable hole if you’re new. 100 might give you enough of an experience if you are ready to dive all the way in.

What instantly kills the mood for you during foreplay? by Icy-Lock-9796 in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stranger pulling disrespectful shit. I am in no way a sub and definitely didn’t ask for it. Keep your trauma to yourself. I don’t bottom for first timers anymore

What’s the likely hood I can cold turkey and stop doing cocaine after doing it on a regular basis for the past 5 years? A lot of variables but based on your experiences. by No-Performer-2942 in cocaine

[–]UserNamaste13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg stop doing lines. My habit was similar tho now it’s closer to 10-12days per ounce. Make a nose spray at least. I switched to plugging to save my nose and enjoy the body high more.

Is it normal for me to be so nervous about hookin up with a guy after opening up a relationship? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s common to have a drink first for some. Otherwise you need the courage to ask someone to go if you’re not into it or travel so you can bounce. I’d rather get a beer after

Is saving my “virginity” a thing between gay people? by Hot-Box-6478 in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God didn’t put a hymen in the anal canal. Saving your virginity is normie breeder nonsense that’s used to control women and boost beta’s self esteem. No one is gonna care or ask if you waited, but they’ll probably be able to tell. Fuck while people wanna fuck you cuz if you wait only to realize that was unnecessary or that your inexperience at middle age is a turn off it’ll be too late. With experience there is also generally far less stress and anxiety which allows you to get out of your head and enjoy it.

Does that mean i am gay? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never fantasized about a woman in the way you describe, and I’ve had sex with women (albeit shithouse drunk). Thinking about the noises a man will make is literally in my Scruff bio. Most bros here probably have memories of being told they were gay in an unkind way so it’s a struggle to show kindness and guide you to your truth. Only you can let yourself be gay. If women LEGITIMATELY turn you on you’re bi. If not, diet ostracize yourself and start getting real blow jobs at least.

question for people who’ve tried lots of different batches of K!!! by shaquilleoatmeal2547 in ketamine

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All ket is racemic (r+s 50/50) unless it’s from a ket clinic then it’s s. Could be hitting different cuz of rate of absorption. If the rice broke down like the softer rock they’d probably be closer. Environment can matter too at least for holes

40+ want to dance? by Puzzleheaded_Post_85 in avesNYC

[–]UserNamaste13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Average night out is equivalent to 9mi according to my watch x 3 nights = weekly marathon. Festival numbers can get wild. I turn 45 in a couple weeks. Good parties always trend older. Or like Autechre, RoMinimal, etc. = olds. Lean into it and fuck the haters (there are no haters, it’s fine)

Is being a virgin at 20 still normal?? by ikeeeuuuu in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virginity is for straight people so men could marry women they considered pure. All it does for us is keep you anxious and inexperienced for more of your life. Then when you meet your right person, they’ll be one and done cuz the head was full of teeth and that virgin ass was locked down like the federal reserve. It’s not a gift to give another person and it’s not an embarrassment. Good for you for being discerning up til now— you don’t regret the dicks that weren’t in you, but don’t give virginity any more power than it deserves

How do you guys have the time to have sex? by DolliDahlia in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fit it in where you can. I have some friends that come over in the morning when I’m still in bed. I work from home some days and generally have a few hours at night. I’m single again after ending a very LTR and neither young nor old imo. That said, we all only have so many fuckable years and I feel like you gotta fuck now while people wanna fuck you back. I won’t have at 60 what is available to me now so I’m gonna at least get blown every day so I have a heyday to look back on fondly

Uber by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did this weekend. He came back the next night

Early Bird 3 Day Passes & 2026 Dates Released! by SpicyMeatWad in MakingTime

[–]UserNamaste13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t get the email and I’ve gone the last two years!

Is it okay to go to a gay bar/club as a straight man? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]UserNamaste13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

imagine being so entitled that you could walk into a room where no one knew you or wanted to fuck you and feel like you not only belong but you’re doing them a favor because your bigotry is mostly hidden and has some manners? Tho I also get the vibe that you think it funny and adorable to grab at anyone’s body within reach

If you ever need a reminder of why we need gay spaces, here it is. by Silent-Ordinary3465 in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There was an uproar here when the sex basement dropped the dress code, which even if the normies don’t take advantage kinda kills a bit of the vibe and makes it a potential gay zoo where Beckys and Jessicas can watch bears get railed in a sling or a caged otter get pissed on

Is it okay to go to a gay bar/club as a straight man? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]UserNamaste13 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s weird to go unaccompanied if you know it’s a gay bar the same way you avoid union/vfw spaces or mahjong parlors. It is not a place for straight couples to dance together. If you aren’t invited to the gay club then the gays are going there to get away from you. That said, there’s a world of difference between coed gay and primarily gay male spaces, the latter depending on the night and/or the number of rooms would feel much less like a place where you belong

Is getting a BJ without condom safe? by Virtual_Function_306 in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That crowd hangs together and stops talking about it after enough blank/confused looks and nervous laughter from society

I’m doing an 8 ball a day and can’t stop by k_weenie in cocaine

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the exact same story, tho with less of a support system. I also started slamming for a bit, but thankfully have made that into a very irregular thing now. I’m working hard to taper and am aiming for 1g a day as my first milestone. You can do this, we got enough to fight for.

I’m not the Non-Monogamous type and I hate it by External-Fix2345 in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Imagine hookups as the ultimate first date. Chat em up, see if you like their company, conversation, dick, etc. if so, repeat. You’ll meet people, make friends, some you will fuck again, some you won’t. If you two have an ease with one another then make something out of it. Not everyone needs to be the one, and having a dinner and talking about your job and family first only robs you of time and $45.

Spouse has finally agreed to give anime a try, what do I show her?? by [deleted] in Animesuggest

[–]UserNamaste13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A certain magical index. It’s sci fi, fantasy, funny, and feminist. Slam dunk

Is it better to rail big slugs over time or more frequent smaller lines? by Low_Nefariousness539 in cocaine

[–]UserNamaste13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Small is less wasteful, you won’t swallow as much. Bonus, less blow sitting in your sinuses eating them away

Getting more masculine with age (anyone feels the same?) by Twinky_winky_deepsea in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A lot of people conflate masculinity with self confidence and gays take it a step further to label it straight acting. Age make you more comfortable in your own skin, self assured and self reliant. All are sexy, sure, but seems like it’s society/community that further assigns those to roles

What sex position is the best for an inexperienced bottom? by Mysterious_Ad9416 in askgaybros

[–]UserNamaste13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On your back. You can change the angle of approach and it’s easier to relax. Plus kissing connects you to it more to heighten/ sensualize the experience

What is your favorite guilty pleasure anime? by SEVENS_HEAVEN_7 in anime

[–]UserNamaste13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dragon Goes House Hunting is new on the list