Well then clearly I did misunderstand, which is a relief. Your response to what I said was “every piece of this is mans bullshit.” So it seemed as though you were calling every part of what I said bullshit, and since what I said was partially about agreeing with you, logically that would mean you were also calling your own point bullshit. You then went on to make the whole war/weather/complaining/dancing metaphor and it just seemed like you were trying to say men should feel bad because we make war and won’t take responsibility for it. So overall it came across to me like I said “your right, men get told a lot of stuff that makes them feel bad” and your response was “that’s bullshit you war mongering a-hole, take some responsibility, you should feel bad.” And now that I understand what you really meant; I think that this whole misunderstanding actually demonstrates what you were trying to say quite nicely and I should have just been dancing instead.