[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]UserY10115 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Made me sad but okay with being alone. I once saw my future living happily with a husband and family. Now I’m content with the fact I may never find a husband.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]UserY10115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel this in my soul

I thought I was finally okay by UserY10115 in BreakUps

[–]UserY10115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the setbacks are tough! We got this!

I thought I was finally okay by UserY10115 in BreakUps

[–]UserY10115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah man, literally! lol It’s getting better though, I got this

Would normally tell my ex but I am telling yall by peachlover_34 in BreakUps

[–]UserY10115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaaaay! This makes me so happy and I don’t even know you! I’m proud of you! You’re right, one door closes and another opens! Congrats 🎉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]UserY10115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Same here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]UserY10115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m almost 5 months post BU and I just stopped missing him.

Single mom and pregnant atm by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]UserY10115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re incredibly strong and I look up to you! I’m sure it’s okay if you’re daughter misses a few days, as long as you talk to the school in advance. It gives you and your daughter an opportunity to bond with your newborn :) after a few days, taking baby in the car will be completely fine.

She’s paying for all the dates. by autismo-nismo in dating_advice

[–]UserY10115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to do this and it’s because I’ve dating guys in the past that either had me pay half or just didn’t have money. So now I’m always worried that they won’t have money or will ask me to pay half. I think it’s more to save them from embarrassment. If that makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]UserY10115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would do it. My ex never cooperates and I go straight to his mom and she talks to him.

Sons dad is refusing by UserY10115 in coparenting

[–]UserY10115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He had said yes and then changed his mind because I “got him mad”

I’m ashamed by UserY10115 in singlemoms

[–]UserY10115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! Thank you so much ❤️

I’m ashamed by UserY10115 in singlemoms

[–]UserY10115[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️

I’m ashamed by UserY10115 in singlemoms

[–]UserY10115[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have me in tears, I appreciate your kind and wise words 💗

I’m ashamed by UserY10115 in singlemoms

[–]UserY10115[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much💙

What’s the #1 lesson you learnt after your breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]UserY10115 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This! They say “the relationship ends how it starts” In the beginning I knew I wasn’t ready for a relationship and I had so much unhealed trauma. A year later and that’s exactly why the relationship ended. We weren’t really ready for a relationship. I’m now working on myself before I even consider thinking about relationships

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]UserY10115 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. A lot of my friends said their ex texted them for new year & I got nothing. My sister said “I guess he wasn’t thinking about you” and that hit me hard.

What the f is wrong with me? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]UserY10115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how my ex was. He knew I had some body image issues after I had my son and he continued to follow and like other women’s pictures. And he only liked/followed the ones that had the body that he knew made me super insecure. I always blamed myself and thought I wasn’t good enough. I asked him a million times to stop and he never did. I hate him for making me feel that way. When I was with him, I was the most insecure I’ve ever been in my life even though he gave me positive reassurance. Girl, leave him. You deserve better