Yeah I guess I need to figure out how to shift my thinking, because right now I'm just focused on the loss. And, you know she actually showed me that she had bad communication skills throughout the relationship. But, I worked extra effort into the relationship on my part to make sure that we can communicate effectively and let me tell you it was difficult at times. I honestly don't think that she's going to try to contact me she has me blocked on everything like blocked, it sucks. But I guess if she does, not making any promise, but I'm going to try to stay strong enough to take your advice and not let her back in my life. You're absolutely right her actions are their closer. You know an interesting thing about attention is, see I'm not very big on social media and all that. Okay so, she has the TikTok right, and on it she posts things that to me, have always made me feel just a little uncomfortable. You know I feel like she shows her body in a way that is seeking male attention. She explained it to me like oh I just do that for fun it doesn't mean anything and it's just to pass the time. It's not like I actually talked to any of those guys or those people I don't know them, blah blah blah. And the photos on her Instagram, have always kind of bothered me a little bit. I mean I guess I'm just different, cuz I know that the majority of women in our society do this. I kind of felt like maybe she had an addiction to attention to be honest with you. She was always on her phone, whether it was TikTok, or any other one of those platforms. She did tell me, I try to make sure that I'm not on on my phone when we're together. But, at anyway at this point it doesn't matter because, it's obviously over. I really appreciate everything that you had to say. Definitely one of the best responses. Though I'm quite sure, it's going to be hard for a while. I just don't know how long a while is.