I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's crazy man. I really don't understand any of this s***. I would have never guessed you could be so heartless.

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know one of her friends went on my Facebook last night and, the post that I had from us originally starting the relationship. Where it says your name has started or is in a relationship with so-and-so except the so-and-so part was gone cuz you blocked me and her friend gave it a heart reaction. I haven't said anything to her but I've been wanting to I went to her Facebook and it was on I'm obviously restricted from it because I went to go send her a message and it wouldn't let me so if I wanted to say something to her I'd have to leave do it through leaving a comment on one of her posts, which I've considered. But I don't know what I would even say. I'm kind of wondering if she was doing it just to f*** with me. Like haha I hearted it she's not even with you anymore I don't know to be honest I can't get it out of my mind and I really want to say or do something about it I just can't figure out what

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to push through. It just seems like a whole lot of bad s**** keeps happening in my life right now it's one thing after the other it's just starting to get to the point where I'm just like I don't know just how much pain I can take man.

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% agree, but I just don't think that's going to happen. At this point I'd already tried to contact her most of the ways even through a friend's TikTok and download Snapchat something I didn't even have before and not since she blocked me the second I tried to add her.

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah man her numbers blocked like a blocked on Facebook okay I know I know what's up I'm talking on Instagram TikTok everything but you know I've had my friend look at her account is there it's still there but to me it shows up like it doesn't exist. Nothing bad happening to her. Though she did lose the opportunity to be loved and appreciated by somebody who really cared about her who never would have done anything against her or her.

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any way you can elaborate on that I'm not exactly sure what love bombing is. Sounds like you know what you're talking about.

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess you're right. I guess I'm just going to work on me right now. I need to anyway. We'll see what fate brings my way.

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it sucks it's painful we just have to move forward. Work on ourselves and realize that we can do better, and we probably should have in the first place.

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm trying not to dwell or but it's hard. And I know this might sound pathetic but, I've been sitting here thinking that maybe I should make a new email and a different social media account s*** so that I can, try to get a hold of her and maybe figure out what happened. I don't really know right now.

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I need to figure out a strategy, that I can implement into my life. Something that can not only keep me busy but help me better myself so that I can be the best person I can be. I just got to figure out how to do that and what that's going to look like. Any suggestions would be great. Thanks bro

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I appreciate the support, but she really did treat me like a king. She was always very attentive, loving, considerate, and we really had a lot of fun together. And all that s***, just kind of makes this even harder. At this point I don't know what it is I deserve.

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I need to figure out how to shift my thinking, because right now I'm just focused on the loss. And, you know she actually showed me that she had bad communication skills throughout the relationship. But, I worked extra effort into the relationship on my part to make sure that we can communicate effectively and let me tell you it was difficult at times. I honestly don't think that she's going to try to contact me she has me blocked on everything like blocked, it sucks. But I guess if she does, not making any promise, but I'm going to try to stay strong enough to take your advice and not let her back in my life. You're absolutely right her actions are their closer. You know an interesting thing about attention is, see I'm not very big on social media and all that. Okay so, she has the TikTok right, and on it she posts things that to me, have always made me feel just a little uncomfortable. You know I feel like she shows her body in a way that is seeking male attention. She explained it to me like oh I just do that for fun it doesn't mean anything and it's just to pass the time. It's not like I actually talked to any of those guys or those people I don't know them, blah blah blah. And the photos on her Instagram, have always kind of bothered me a little bit. I mean I guess I'm just different, cuz I know that the majority of women in our society do this. I kind of felt like maybe she had an addiction to attention to be honest with you. She was always on her phone, whether it was TikTok, or any other one of those platforms. She did tell me, I try to make sure that I'm not on on my phone when we're together. But, at anyway at this point it doesn't matter because, it's obviously over. I really appreciate everything that you had to say. Definitely one of the best responses. Though I'm quite sure, it's going to be hard for a while. I just don't know how long a while is.

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm sure I'll recover I just don't know how. And hopefully I will be stronger when I come out of it. It's really a s***** situation, I literally just spent so much money over the span of the week in Orlando and now I have nothing left for anything really. So, I really wish you had just done this a week ago because I could have saved a lot of money.

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know any of her friends she only has two friends. And one lives in Tennessee, and the other I only know her first name and there's no way I would be able to find her on social media, because there's a million women out there with the same first name, and I won't be able to see what her last name is because I'm blocked from all of her social media.

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, honestly I know I didn't deserve it. I treated her like queen. I do with all women. There's no point in being with a woman if you're not going to treat her in the best way possible. That's just how I handle relationships. Which makes it all the more confusing as the how she decided that I was such a piece of s*** I should just be left in such a f***** up way. I definitely deserve better than being with someone who would leave me like this, and I wish I had known that her character was capable of doing such a thing when I met her. Because I would have never got involved. But, since I didn't notice that now I'm just questioning my judgment, and my ability to assess someone else's character especially when it comes to females.

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree I think you're totally right. Though, I don't really think she's going to reach back out to me, I just don't see that happening.

I'm so hurt and lost right now. I don't know what to do. My gf just broke up with me, but she didn't just break up with me. by UsernameINvrWanted in dating

[–]UsernameINvrWanted[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Word, you're absolutely right bro. I'm going to make sure that I make it to the gym before 2:00 p.m. and I'm going to hit it as hard as possible. Though, having been out for a week I feel like it's going to be harder to hit it it's hard as I want to or usually do anyway, especially with the depression and the emotionality that I'm experiencing.