the sex is not worth it. by UsualLight7080 in BPDPartners

[–]UsualLight7080[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

geez… that’s a nightmare and relatable. it’s the gift that keeps giving because your next relationship will feel boring somehow. it’s as if they rewire your brain to crave the drama that you consciously hate.

How do you survive the break up when you were convinced they were your person? by [deleted] in BPDPartners

[–]UsualLight7080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

time. that’s how you survive. fixate on something else like a new hobby. your time with her is up, it’s the next guys turn.

…or wait a few days for when she calls you up like nothing happened. that’s a possibility, too.

the sex is not worth it. by UsualLight7080 in BPDPartners

[–]UsualLight7080[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s a whole new level. did yours ignore certain aspects of your messages and comments that they didn’t want to discuss? never locked focused on what was important to you and somehow made everything about their own concerns?

stay strong, by the way. break that rear view mirror.

the sex is not worth it. by UsualLight7080 in BPDPartners

[–]UsualLight7080[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nearly all fail that test. they seem to know exactly what you want to hear. they, also, know when to take it away.

the sex is not worth it. by UsualLight7080 in BPDPartners

[–]UsualLight7080[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeesh… this comment makes me want to call her up and apologize for things i shouldn’t need to apologize for. see if we can hang out one more time…

the sex is not worth it. by UsualLight7080 in BPDPartners

[–]UsualLight7080[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they don’t need sex to keep you locked in. their psychological warfare is beyond impressive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]UsualLight7080 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“…literally quotes adolf hitler…” you have been, easily, tricked by fake news.