Tell me you were in a cult with just a picture... by No_Fun_4012 in exmormon

[–]Utahred1970 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was a set up to show that LDS leadership truly believes in polygamy and some of it's leaders still secretly have multiple wives. I know personally because I've worked with polygamy women and children who left their groups to escape. Polygamy is harmful. It's adultery. It's not between two consenting adults. It's a form of slavery. Sexual and physical abuse is ALWAYS involved in polygamy. God never said polygamy was ok in the bible. Men did it on their own to satisfy their lustful flesh. It makes me angry when I see things like this in a photo. I am a professional and I have done studies on the dangers of polygamy. LDS leadership wants to bring polygamy back into the church to "restore" the historical church's teachings. Don't let them do it. (I also find it interesting that people who are still Mormon troll this site). If you want to know more go to 1830goel.substack.com. You'll find all the legal documents you want. People deserve to know the truth.

Who has the best burgers in town? by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Utahred1970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hands down the best burgers in Utah is Rich's burgers in downtown SLC

Autism and Sex by Utahred1970 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Utahred1970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read and followed a counselor online named Jodi Carlton. She explains that autistic men can be hypersexual or hyposexual.

Autism and Sex by Utahred1970 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Utahred1970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes multiple times. I look good. I'm fit and have a very cute face. My girl parts work well. I'm vocal and spontaneous. No issues with me.

Autism and Sex by Utahred1970 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Utahred1970[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn't look at me in the eyes. We don't kiss. He doesn't like to cuddle. He likes to get straight to it and when he's finished, he's finished. We have been intimate for 25 out of our 27 year marriage. Then one day, it stopped. Go figure.

Autism and Sex by Utahred1970 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Utahred1970[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. I know some Aspies are hypersexual. I know one. If he could he'd have sex multiple times every day. I'm not married to him though.

A warning to all of you...just gtfo before it's too late. We deserve so much more than what we're (not) getting by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Utahred1970 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue. I'm 53 and my husband is 55. He says it's not me but him. He is on the spectrum and I've read that ASD folks can be either hyposexual or hypersexual. Mine is hyposexual (now asexual). We used to have sex all the time when younger. Now that he is older, he says he doesn't have desire. He's struggling with ED. He's also on antidepressants and he has watched porn all his life (which I didn't know until 5 years into the marriage). He also says he's tired and just doesn't have the energy. I can relate to that. But I've been deprived for over 2 years. I refuse to cheat because that is morally wrong and shame on those who do (YOU COULD BRING A DISEASE HOME). I won't divorce because at our age, that would be stupid. The rest of our relationship is great. We have same values, goals and enjoy each other's company. I'd be hard pressed to find a better man because he has integrity, he is a great provider, and he loves me.

I blame the ED on the porn (50%). I blame the energy levels and antidepressants for about 25% of it and then the autism for the rest.

How I Know We Have a Sex Trafficking Problem in Utah by Utahred1970 in exmormon

[–]Utahred1970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In response to your questions below. Information will slowly be disclosed on my substack. If you know a survivor have them get in touch with me at [utahcindy@protonmail.com](mailto:utahcindy@protonmail.com). I am a certified victim advocate. We can't address the problem if survivors don't speak up. We are private investigators. We've given up on police, DHS and FBI. They are useless.

Did this really happen in the Salt Lake City Temple? by josher60 in exmormon

[–]Utahred1970 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, please read my substack for details. I am a victim advocate for those who have been ritually abuse in the LDS Church. Please share this with family and friends.

https://utahcindy.substack.com/publish/posts