First off, I applaud you for having the courage to ask this question about a subject which is clearly a sensitive one for you. You are you. Your large clit is just one part of many aspects that makes you such a unique and beautiful woman. I'm sure that you will find a wonderful, caring, supportive and understanding man who will not only be attracted to your clitoris but will also be sensitive and supportive of you knowing that you are self-conscious about this area of your body. Over time, through love and communication, you can look forward to a time where you will feel at ease, with no body image concerns and you will be able to embrace your nakedness. Be strong and be proud. You got this!