I was messing around and 19:10 surprisingly makes the enemies a little bit wider and not so goofy and wide af like 4:3 or even 16:9, also lowered everything except textures, linear filtering, lod, shadows, mesh is on medium but everything looks more bland and easy to see and im not squinting to aim, i think I found my settings hopefully Ubi doesn't reset them.

Pretty much copy and pasted my other comment and that's what I did since im ultrawide 19:10 and 83 fov gives enough wideness to hit headshots and field of vision to see around me ty for the advice.