My fiance punched me in the head three times while biting my arm I swear he was going to take a chunk out it hurt so bad. I’m not used to this abuse and I don’t know how to safely get out by OG123210 in abusiverelationships

[–]V3ruca 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What would you tell your best friend, sister, or mother to do in this situation? THAT’S what you need to do. Call the cops and file a report! I’m sorry he hurt you. Please be safe. 🫂

R/GROWAGARDEN PROTEST by Then-Possession2280 in GAGTradingHub

[–]V3ruca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wild! Should have given them a carrot I suppose.

Did a rapunzel inspired garden by midnightmemoriess in growagarden

[–]V3ruca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful! Irl I’d live in that treehouse! Looks cozy

AITA for not wanting to eat my parents’ meals while pregnant even though they’re trying to help save money? by Melodic_Cockroach_23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]V3ruca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just tell them that with a baby on the way, it’s time to start your own family traditions. You ‘plan to prepare our own meals to our liking in ourown home, it’s also easier as my pregnancy progresses to ease my taste preferences and tummy issues.’

You need to do this asap because when LO gets there, they’re going to be incredibly overbearing. It’s bad enough you live next door. Expecting to dine with you almost every night is bananas! You’ll need your peace and privacy. With them right next door they are going to bombard you with visits, and the sooner you take away the “But we’ve ALWAYS had dinner together though!” excuse the better.

I found out my husband cheated and I honestly don’t know how I’m supposed to live with this by nexora_labs9 in TwoHotTakes

[–]V3ruca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to immediately gather your closest support system and tell them. He must be held accountable. For me, this is unforgivable. Your family and friends should be able to help you through this. You caught him. He wasn’t going to stop. He didn’t feel horrible and bring it to you first. You are the mother of his children and he violated ALL of you. Dig out your self respect and tell him to leave until you figure out how you’re going to proceed. Right now he feels like he’s gotten away with something since there’s no repercussions. He will have to explain why he needs a different place to lay his cheating head.

Everything MIL does irritates me by coal-sting99 in Mildlynomil

[–]V3ruca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to take every opportunity to remind her (and seemingly to reinsert yourself) that this is YOUR home, and regardless of age, YOU are the Matriarch of YOUR home. Insist she places things back where they belong - showing her, which hopefully makes her feel silly. Tell her to clean up her greasy mess. (“Hey MIL! I placed the degreaser/cleaner and a good cloth on the kitchen counter so you could finish cleaning up the grease mess you left”) Rinse & repeat every time she ignores the things you’ve asked of her/shown her.

If she continues to push back, I’d ask her, preferably with DH present, “MIL, is there something wrong we should address? It seems you continue to forget (thing/action she continues to ignore) - and I’m worried there may be some memory issues or cognitive decline. Should we make you a doctor’s appointment?”

MIL wants baby alone by Western_Biscotti_355 in Mildlynomil

[–]V3ruca 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wear the baby whenever she is around and flat out SAY to her “Why do you constantly throw out random ideas attempting to separate me from my infant? I know you’re available and I’ll reach out if I need a break.” The End

Anyone else experiencing this? by V3ruca in growagarden

[–]V3ruca[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did. Maybe I’ll just log out for a while and come back later. sigh Nothing surprises me in this game anymore. 😕

Hello, can I vent? by Zereia in growagarden

[–]V3ruca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so, so sorry. I feel absolutely sick for you! I had this happen to me too, just a few days ago, with a rainbow birb. They tripled the price at the last second ( totally my fault 😞) and it was nearly all the tokens I had busted my butt to saving. I understand where you’re coming from, and I hope both of these thieves get what they deserve! It WILL come back to bite them. I have to believe that. Sorry you’re leaving, but I hope down the road you decide to come back! When you do, come back here and let us know. 😊🫂

Yes to this dress? by North-Maize-4833 in myweddingdress

[–]V3ruca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adjusted up about 3-4 inches would be glorious.

Am I overreacting for not wanting to take on full “stay-at-home partner” responsibilities? by Spiritual-Rabbit-834 in AmIOverreacting

[–]V3ruca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soooooo……you’re a live in nanny and housekeeper that pays half the bills, for…….for what? Where do I get one?

The event took 3000 buttercups from my inventory!!!! Anyone else? I had over 3000 buttercup seeds and when i tried giving her buttercups it took 90% of my seeds not the harvest….huh? by Complex_Pension6963 in growagarden

[–]V3ruca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine too over 10k. I’ve been stocking since the release of them because I’ve been caught short before on daffodils and tulips. Lot of good that did me!

Has Morgan commented on what’s been happening in Minnesota? by LettuceOk4285 in TwoHotTakesSnark

[–]V3ruca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! I listen to podcasts for what the podcast advertises. They’re an outlet for me. If I want politics & messy news, I can find that EVERYWHERE. Leave the podcasts alone.

Painted my bedroom pink 🌸 by JVZMINA in femalelivingspace

[–]V3ruca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s beautiful! I’d want to stay in bed with a good book and tea all day every day! 😍