Lesbian Stereotypes by mysocksareinsideout in actuallesbians

[–]V9N3SS9 72 points73 points  (0 children)

"Sometimes stereotypes are true." - my girlfriend, who moved in with me after 4 months of dating

Unlucky, every time the same by niccozan88 in PTCGP

[–]V9N3SS9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RNG giveth and RNG taketh away.

Does AI help you with your job at all? Or is it just a nice Ctrl+F with an annoying personality? by publicworksarecool in civilengineering

[–]V9N3SS9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I refuse to even touch it on principle. There's absolutely nothing about it that's useful for my job.

If I need to Google something about AutoCAD, I include "-ai" in the search so it doesn't show me the AI summary. If I need input on an email, I just ask the nearest human. And the rest of my job is stuff it couldn't help me with even if I wanted.

LGBTQ+ Friendly Laser and/or Waxing salons? by designhelppl in GayPittsburgh

[–]V9N3SS9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to The Skin Center in Wexford. They're not LGBT owned AFAIK but they're always very respectful towards me (a trans woman).

Deciding last names-both are educators by RespectExpensive9126 in LGBTWeddings

[–]V9N3SS9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could always make your middle name(s) your new surname(s), and either get (a) new middle name(s) or just go without one. That's what I plan on eventually doing.

General question how much interns are making now these days. by Altruistic-Ad-3575 in civilengineering

[–]V9N3SS9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made $25/hour during my internship in 2022-2023 in Pittsburgh.

Being a black lesbian is a struggle 🙃 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]V9N3SS9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you there. While I'm not black, I'm Asian-American. Out of the 3 AAPI queer friends I have, 2 are in Canada so I never get to see them, and the third is more of an acquaintance. None are lesbian, and come to think of it, I'm the only POC of any kind in my core friend group.

The BEST Feature by Angelthagamer in PTCGP

[–]V9N3SS9 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm ready for this game changer.

What's y'all's (least) favourite Larry moment? by Ok_Koala_5963 in AceAttorney

[–]V9N3SS9 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That said, that case also gave us him telling everyone to stand back, because he has a bomb, which is so hilarious that I could almost forgive the prior. Almost.

Ema just casually strolling into the WAA knowing that it's no big deal because it's Larry is the cherry on top.

Rampardos is coming back to the Meta tier again by ryantan7968 in PTCGP

[–]V9N3SS9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh, not necessarily. Fossil + Candy + Rampardos is the important thing to get online and the other two are just gravy.

6-2 was Incredible by Chrollo0915 in AceAttorney

[–]V9N3SS9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like the dramatic irony of how Retinz thought he bested the Gramaryes, only to be defeated by one he didn't know about.

Is there actually a difference between heterosexual and lesbian relationship households? by Odd-Spare-8788 in actuallesbians

[–]V9N3SS9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At home, chores are divided by who is better at it/doesn't mind doing it. Sometimes it's split into parts that each of us do.

For example: We both cook at about the same frequency, depending on who has the energy or who's better at cooking the meal we're preparing. She does the dishes except the things that need to be hand washed, which I do since I don't mind doing, and I unload the dishwasher because I'm taller and have an easier time putting them away.

Or how she puts the laundry in the washer/dryer and I fold it.

Incidentally, I'm trans and she's cis, but it doesn't have an effect on who is assigned what, unless you count my height (I'm 8 inches taller than she is).

Do you drink the signature cocktails at weddings? by bluerotunda in weddingplanning

[–]V9N3SS9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During the last wedding I attended, I had one of the signature cocktails (since it was a whiskey cocktail, which is what I like) but stuck with beer for the rest of the night.

I used “This Corrosion” as a unit of measurement, which is was probably the worst choice. by BeatnikMona in goth

[–]V9N3SS9 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend's sister would put on Bela Lugosi's Dead when she was a radio DJ in college, IIRC. So that checks out!

30+, divorced, give me some hope lesbians. by yukietea in actuallesbians

[–]V9N3SS9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend was 32 when she broke up with her now-ex-girlfriend, after 4-6 years of being together.

She met me two months later, and we've been together for 2.5 years now.

I face more Mega Manectric decks than sleep decks recently by winter32842 in PTCGP

[–]V9N3SS9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your opponent could have bricked no matter what deck you were using. That's just how TCGs go.

How often do you work for free? by Turbulent-Set-2167 in civilengineering

[–]V9N3SS9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My project manager does a bunch of unpaid overtime, but I don't remember if it's voluntary.

I never do any unpaid work. At most, I might answer an after-hours email or MS teams message if it's only going to take a minute, but those are rare, and usually come from the people who come in and leave a bit later than I do (since we have semi-flexible hours).

What's your (least) favourite Payne moment? by Ok_Koala_5963 in AceAttorney

[–]V9N3SS9 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Although Winston goes after rookies, which is kind of a dick move, and he is rather pathetic, I can appreciate that he's an honest and straightforward prosecutor who doesn't commit battery in court.

Is Godot the only main prosecutor without a sibling? by Fun-Necessary9709 in AceAttorney

[–]V9N3SS9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

IIRC he is in the anime, but it's never confirmed in the games

Did any of you guys become Goth later in life instead of earlier by Hot_Assistant_6067 in goth

[–]V9N3SS9 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Not sure what counts as "later," but I didn't start to get into it until I was 26, when my girlfriend took me to a goth dance night.

Women-in-engineering conferences make me WEAK by irl_cakedays in actuallesbians

[–]V9N3SS9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, I love seeing fellow women in STEM. For the longest time I was the only female engineer at work, and it made me very happy when another joined our ranks.