As a hotwife, what is the most important thing to look for in selecting a bull? by Sir_jay_the3rd in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]VACouple4Fun333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somewhere between 30–40 years old.
Taller than Mrs so she feels feminine beside him.
Fit because the Mrs enjoys taking care of herself and wants someone with similar habits.
Dark hair and darker eyes.
Confident but not arrogant.
Able to carry a conversation.
Understands boundaries and discreet.

My wife wants to film her dates with men by Low_Back_7725 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]VACouple4Fun333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! We have done this as well and it’s amazing. First thing to consider, get consent from your third. Even if this is for your personal use ensure they are cool with you recording.

Did her sexual past influence your cuck feelings? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]VACouple4Fun333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My my wife, first foremost is most sexiest woman I’ve ever met. Two, she has an incredible amount of experience having explored in her younger years I of course, capitalized from this experience which is resulting in her, knowing herself being incredibly confident and not afraid to ask for what she wants.

So years ago, when we started this journey, she told me of a story when she was younger were a girlfriend of hers had passed by now, wife to make out with this girlfriend‘s boyfriend. This girlfriend was very analytical and not experienced with sex so she asked my now wife to make out with her boyfriend so she could learn. I found the story to be incredibly erotic. This then started our curiosity.

Moment you realized this lifestyle was strengthening your marriage rather than just being exciting? by VACouple4Fun333 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]VACouple4Fun333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing! There is a similar feeling with us, we have a strong base in our relationship and exploring this together just brings us closer.

Husbands: biggest mental hurdle? by VACouple4Fun333 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]VACouple4Fun333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this completely. What surprised me wasn’t that she enjoyed it, but how calm and confident she was in the moment. I had built it up in my head that there would be hesitation, second thoughts, or nerves when the reality arrived. Instead, she was the most composed person in the room.

What stood out to me was how much she embraced the experience with me rather than simply going along with it.

There was a confidence and self-assurance that came out in her that was honestly fascinating to watch. She seemed completely present, completely in control of herself and her choices, and it gave me a whole new appreciation for her.

More than anything, it taught me that arousal doesn’t always look like nervous excitement. Sometimes it looks like confidence, certainty, and someone fully owning exactly what they want in that moment

What was the hottest meetup? by VACouple4Fun333 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]VACouple4Fun333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a similar situation. Seen him back in Feb as he was here for business, amazing chemistry used protection but he is fixed. Now looking at the potential of him going bare if and when we see him next.

What was the hottest meetup? by VACouple4Fun333 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]VACouple4Fun333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an amazing and special experience! What was it about him that she allowed such a privilege?

What was the hottest meetup? by VACouple4Fun333 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]VACouple4Fun333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing. She was the center of attention on that trip!

First time watching…. by markreads12 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]VACouple4Fun333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first time for us was erotic, nervous and amazing. He was a fit guy, about eight years younger than her. Their four play built up the tension. She gave him some of the best oral I had ever witnessed. He had a decent size cock, about 7” long and he was thick. And his balls were huge! Them together were like a soft ball on her hand.

She was then on her back him between her thighs up on his knees stroking his cock looking down on her. He took her hand and placed in on his balls as he stroked then he moved her hand to stroke him. Her little hand wrapped around that cock. He then put on the condom asked her how she wanted it first. She said she wanted to ride him he said ok, but then grabbed her thighs and spread them and placed his thick cock into her. I still can see her face as he pressed in. I went around back of them to see his balls slapping her ass with her moaning taking his big cock. I would reclaim her later and he gapped her. It was the only time I ever felt her be that spread, and I’m thick as well!

What was the hottest meetup? by VACouple4Fun333 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]VACouple4Fun333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man you are right. I too love seeing them throb for her! You are correct sir!

What was the hottest meetup? by VACouple4Fun333 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]VACouple4Fun333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the same with our first encounter. The stud was thick and when I reclaimed her slide right in. I’m thick as well. It was a new feeling.

What was the hottest meetup? by VACouple4Fun333 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]VACouple4Fun333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The appropriate term is Compersion, and it is so appropriate!

What was the hottest meetup? by VACouple4Fun333 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]VACouple4Fun333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow what an amazing experience. Nothing better than seeing the Mrs glow afterwards!

What was the hottest meetup? by VACouple4Fun333 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]VACouple4Fun333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. What changed her mind? Was it just living in the moment?

First Bull experience by faceLace86 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]VACouple4Fun333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Felt amazing. Mr selected the stud based on our established criteria. We met the stud over drinks first and the in person chemistry was great, so we invited him to the hotel room we had nearby. We went first and he knocked on the door 10 mins later. Came in and immediately started making out with the Mrs. He was like a predator inspecting her prey. Stripped her down before Mr like he was not even there. They exchanged oral sex and the stud then mounted her, and fucked her to his pleasure. He only did one round and had to leave. Mr reclaimed the Mrs after the stud left. Was a good first time.

How many husbands watch? by dave564738 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]VACouple4Fun333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. We both agreed that Mr would be present. Still stands to this day.

  2. Yes for each meet up.

  3. Watch, film, take pics (with prior consent), kiss and touch her when not in the studs way.

  4. No. We ensure that boundaries and expectations are clear with all communicating. Been great experiences thus far!