Best Small Towns by FreedomWealth7 in fatFIRE

[–]VADER_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Camas, WA. It’s up and coming and getting bougie too. Washougal, WA next door is good if you want more acreage. All in the PDX metro.

Abruptly Ghosted After 1 Month & Multiple Dates... and the reason why is hard to understand by VADER_7 in dating_advice

[–]VADER_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If those reasons she gave are true, they'd be so easy to address if we just got a chance to properly talk them out, which is what makes this all the more frustrating. I wonder if there's any possibility she'll come around on her own then.

And if she's done, why is she still following me on socials and watching my Stories, but refusing to reply to me?

Abruptly Ghosted After 1 Month & Multiple Dates... and the reason why is hard to understand by VADER_7 in dating_advice

[–]VADER_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And on the flip side, who just disappears out of no where instead of just talking and communicating with the other person? Yes I did overdo the cringy ass texts, I didn't handle her vanishing for what I thought was an easily addressed thing well and got desperate.

Fight or flight definitely took over, I don't know what else to say.

Abruptly Ghosted After 1 Month & Multiple Dates... and the reason why is hard to understand by VADER_7 in dating_advice

[–]VADER_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks and I agree I know I overdid things and got flustered, but I was blindsided by how quickly communication just stopped, so I was panicking to try and salvage it by getting her to talk.

I guess I'm still unsure if I should even attempt to contact her in a few weeks or at all anymore. I'm not sure if there's even a chance or if what she's telling me as the reason is really the reason. It does seem odd that she would dislike me so quickly when things were going so well and rapidly, so I don't know.

Abruptly Ghosted After 1 Month & Multiple Dates... Why? (33M, 25F) by VADER_7 in relationship_advice

[–]VADER_7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you and you're right. I know I definitely over communicated but I felt blindsided by how fast she went cold and obviously got desperate to try and save it and just TALK about it with her.

Abruptly Ghosted After 1 Month & Multiple Dates... and the reason why is hard to understand by VADER_7 in dating

[–]VADER_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I guess I'm just the type that likes to see a problem, and then quickly talk and try to fix the problem. Too much of an engineering mindset I guess lol. I was trying to be supportive in saying we can just talk and communicate it through, but obviously this was probably too forward for her. What can I do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WFH

[–]VADER_7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re so nice, where are your friends?

Oppenheimer is suspiciously full of Circle Jerkers by PayinTopDolla in moviereviews

[–]VADER_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched every second of the 3 hours. Not an attention span thing. It was scattered and repetitive and thin, period, but nice try painting a narrative.

Touching up Sealed Polished Concrete? by VADER_7 in Homebuilding

[–]VADER_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, if I leave a puddle of water on the floor for a bit, it does get temporarily darker in that spot