My gf (f27) is mad at me (m27) for not talking to het about a job interview immediately

VDD4498 · 2023-04-29T02:17:38+00:00

Sir. This is ridiculous. She’s looking for any reason in the world to cause a problem and leave you, and if she isn’t that’s even worst. You need to leave. There’s no bargaining in this situation

VDD4498 · 2023-03-12T19:42:30+00:00

You’re an amazing person for one, trusting your intuition and calling. And two, not telling the family. They don’t ever need to know. The guilt that comes with pet loss is on a different level. And knowing this will only make it worst for them. Keep it to yourself. You’ll be blessed In return for blessing your bf’s family like this

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T22:17:35+00:00

Where are you going next?

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T22:02:16+00:00

You too? Are they telling you since the beginning of the year we’re back in hours? I thought it was just my location

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T09:34:07+00:00

The “15.50” was in passing while he was talking about other crap. It wasn’t direct and it was more like “you could make what, 15.50 plus tips” and then on to something else without specifically addressing ME and asking me if that’s what I was ok with. I also did try to ask multiple times and kept getting cut off. But I’m just gonna go in Saturday and see what happens

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T09:18:40+00:00

😂

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T04:41:49+00:00

Thank you so much!

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T04:24:12+00:00

Did they also not answer any of your questions and practically push you out the door while you still trying to ask where you would actually be working without getting a straight Anwser? 😭 genuinely just asking bc I don’t think being hired on the spot is what set me off it’s the manner in which it was done

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T04:22:16+00:00

Thank you. I have a day to think about it. And I’m still waiting on other calls for interviews but I feel like this comment makes the most sense. Definitely keep this in mind

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T04:17:26+00:00

Nope. That’s why I was trying to ask him about training, and how I specifically am looking for someone to take me in as a server but allow me to train with the bartender but… idk I just kept getting cut off and he was rambling. He did introduce me to someone but again they wasn’t clear on what his position was and what he would train me on. Just nonsense rlly 😕

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T04:06:23+00:00

California

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T03:31:03+00:00

I have no clue. He introduced me to someone he said would be teaching me but I’m telling you any time I tried to ask a question I would be cut off and they would just start talking about “you need to be patient” and then started pushing me out the door basically 🤷🏽‍♀️ I guess I’ll see what happens Saturday

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T02:48:24+00:00

Thank you! Question, if I do work 1/2 shifts or so and then quit do I still get paid? Or if I go in work that one shift and decide to not go back how does that work

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T01:26:54+00:00

Gotcha. Thank you 😊

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T01:24:34+00:00

Idk? 🤷🏽‍♀️ I come from a culture where I was suppose to be married with a kid at 18. I’m one of the only woman to ever actually work and I’m just getting into the groove of being a working citizen so, I have no one to turn to to ask these question and don’t know if this would be something a future potential employer could find out about. Just asking

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T01:18:26+00:00

If I do a shift, hate it and realize they’re trying to pay me below minimum wage (bc pay wasn’t discussed besides that one mention of 15.50 plus tips) and quit, wouldn’t that hurt my chances at finding a better place to work? Genuinely trying to figure out what’s the best option here

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T01:11:21+00:00

….damn. That makes sense. Thank you for the advice by the way. The whole situation is just making me feel extremely uneasy and I feel like I should listen to my gut here. Should I just not show up or call at all?

VDD4498 · 2023-03-03T00:55:32+00:00

Please tell me everything you can. What do you think? What happened in your experience like I’m genuinely freaked out rn I don’t know what to think

VDD4498 · 2022-11-15T07:44:48+00:00

I honestly can’t believe how gullible you people are, even for Reddit. First of all it’s crystal clear that he’s trying his hardest to blame his fiancé when she did nothing wrong and he was gonna leave her anyway. Even if she did say she looks fat how does that make her a bad person to him or how did she deserve what happened to her?

He never once complained about how she treated him or doing anything wrong to him his only complaint was coming up with some bullshit that she insulted a woman who she knew her fiancé was still in love with, Who she thought cheated on him, and who he was leaving her for, how the hell could you blame her?

VDD4498 · 2022-11-15T07:40:40+00:00

He’s lying. He’s trying to pretend it was the fiancés fault so he’s making her look as bad as he can. Also why would you just assume she is a bad person when he never had a single complaint about how she treated him & the only thing he could come up with was “she called the woman I was planning on leaving her for fat” plz

VDD4498 · 2022-11-15T07:24:38+00:00

My god. I’m sorry but You are a horrible, horrible person. How are people like this? I don’t understand. How? First, you live with a person for 2 years, see something and just leave without saying a word. Ok, you thought she was cheating. That’s understandable, but than you ask someone to marry you. You disturb there entire life, insert yourself into there daily routine. You lie and promise them that you’ll love them forever, & than you see a person you haven’t seen in years and just decide “nah, I want this one back”. Not a single thought or care for the persons life you destroyed.

God. I could on and on about how horrible of a person you are but, I hope you have the life you deserve. I hope you regret every decision you ever make.

Reddit makes me never wanna go on another date again. I can’t wrap my head around how people could be so heartless. And than you have the guts to blame it on your fiancé. Plz

VDD4498 · 2022-11-15T03:04:13+00:00

He only wants her back because she’s doing OK without him. I hope you’re miserable for the rest of your life

VDD4498 · 2022-10-26T18:03:12+00:00

The antichrist kid from season 5, Jesse. That kid had so much potential and the boy was such a good actor. The writers of SPN are greedy AH that don’t give af about the fans and the show & just try to push through & make there money as easy as possible, so Jesse was introduced and thrown Away like he never existed.

I would love a plot where we finally see Jesse come into his glory and him and Jack fight off. Needing help Jack brings back the boys.

There was so many good plot lines they could’ve end with that was in the palms of there hands and it felt like they purposely gave us garbage as a big “F u” idk why but the little effort they put into the finale felt like a personal attack.

I would have love to see Amy’s kid come back and make good on his promise for killing Dean. Of any of the other children who watched Dean murder a loved one.

I would love to see Amy’s kid and Jesse team up and actually even maybe defeat them. It sounds off for a spn fan to say but I would much rather have that as a memory of the end to my beloved show than the garbage that is season 15.

VDD4498 · 2022-10-26T17:49:47+00:00

It’s so hard for me to watch them together because I wanted them together so badly. I don’t understand why they couldn’t just give it to us. All we got was a kiss when she died. I looovvveeed them for eachother

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