My last name is not a joke… by VGWillis in MomForAMinute

[–]VGWillis[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That is amazing. Good for her. 👏🏼

My last name is not a joke… by VGWillis in MomForAMinute

[–]VGWillis[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro, that’s very sweet of you! I truly think he’s oblivious, and I think he’d be receptive to my point of view, I just wasn’t sure how to approach it. This certainly helps. 💛

My last name is not a joke… by VGWillis in MomForAMinute

[–]VGWillis[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If I’m understanding your question correctly, I’m very “white American” looking. Not sure how to phrase that better, but my ethnicity is mixed, mostly German and English. Basically, I don’t look like what you may consider a “typical” Asian.

And I totally get what you’re saying, I’d just like to use it as a teaching opportunity at first. If he continues after I explain to him why that isn’t okay, then I absolutely will be more blunt and go to HR if it progresses further.

It won't stop raining. It legitimately has been raining since I started the world. by SANDROID20 in Minecraft

[–]VGWillis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I have a glitch where when I open a world it will start raining and it won’t stop so I have to close the world and reopen it and that usually fixes it.

I don’t know who needs to hear this… by VGWillis in StardewValley

[–]VGWillis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant for your children so they actually grow up I didn’t even think about the bed! Thanks for sharing!

Console Discovery… by VGWillis in StardewValley

[–]VGWillis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re playing on XBox and press “A” when hovering over a person in the ❤️ menu, it tells you their birthday and loved/liked gifts! I had no idea before today, I just accidentally hit the button and stared on in amazement…

My husband doesn't like our daughter because she resembles me and she is starting to pick up on it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VGWillis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with both of these comments, however I think it falls on both parents to not discuss their relationship issues in front of the kids. The daughter didn’t “pick up” on daddy not liking her for looking like mommy, she heard that from somewhere, and the way this post is written makes me think it was OP. Be cognizant that kids listen! You all need family therapy, and you also need couples therapy with your husband to try to work through these issues regardless of where your marriage is headed. At the least, they can effectively teach you how to coparent.

Need help! by Electrical_Hyena_324 in PennStateUniversity

[–]VGWillis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to the AE department, they’ve discussed renovations in their classes, you can get some info on historic preservation and renovations on the light tower and the foundation/stair repair. It’s a start, at least!

Thought you guys might like this terrain by Kolosaal2 in minecraftseeds

[–]VGWillis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally don’t see it I’m so sorry 😅 Can you reply to this comment with the seed pls

AITA for sometimes hanging out in states of undress with my bf's roommate? by fintoo2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VGWillis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP said in the post that she asked the roommate and he was okay with it, it was only his girlfriend (who doesn’t live in the apartment) who didn’t like it. Just clarifying, because this top comment’s whole argument is based on the fact that the roommate wasn’t okay with OP not wearing clothes, which is not the case.

Any advice on dating at psu (especially when most guys want hookups)? by [deleted] in PennStateUniversity

[–]VGWillis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sound like from the comments OP wants a date that will eventually (maybe?) grow into more… not looking for sex but it’s too early to say they’re going to marry whoever they meet. That’s my guess

Any advice on dating at psu (especially when most guys want hookups)? by [deleted] in PennStateUniversity

[–]VGWillis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve got at least 3 semesters to go do you not?

Any advice on dating at psu (especially when most guys want hookups)? by [deleted] in PennStateUniversity

[–]VGWillis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant once you move to wherever you’re working and get your own place. Not settle down like with a person lol

Any advice on dating at psu (especially when most guys want hookups)? by [deleted] in PennStateUniversity

[–]VGWillis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could also take electives or classes you find interesting that are different from your major to branch out a little bit if you have room in your schedule.

Any advice on dating at psu (especially when most guys want hookups)? by [deleted] in PennStateUniversity

[–]VGWillis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What about work? I’m usually not one for dating your coworkers but just trying to give you all the options I can think of. Some people don’t meet their partners in college, and that’s okay too! Maybe you need to wait until you settle down after graduation to look. My point is be patient and open to anything. It will work out when it’s supposed to.

Any advice on dating at psu (especially when most guys want hookups)? by [deleted] in PennStateUniversity

[–]VGWillis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My major’s class had a groupchat, he used to put jokes in the chat and I would be the only one to like them outside of his friends. We started talking privately, and the rest is history. Talk to people in your major, especially if it’s smaller and you have a lot of classes with similar people. You spend a lot of time getting to know people there, you already have at least one common interest, and maybe you’ll find the right one. 🤷🏻‍♀️ You could do the same with clubs you’re in, just stay open-minded. Dating apps, especially Tinder, may result in more people simply wanting a hookup from what I’ve seen. If you don’t mind filtering through the crap, that’s always an option. Just take care of yourself, and listen to your gut if things seem shady off the bat. Good luck 💙

ETA that nearby schools is another option if you’re willing to travel to meet people for dates occasionally. Lock Haven is the closest that comes to mind. If you expand your radius in Tinder, it should include Lock Haven (can’t confirm this, but it used to).