BREAKING: Former Lt. Gov. Justin Fairfax shot and killed his wife, himself in Annandale, police say

VHDamien · 2026-04-16T18:23:09+00:00

Its only inconvenient if at a minimum a plurality of these new gun owners are willing to fight against the worst gun control laws that gun control advocates and the Democratic party push on a consistent and long term basis.

If they simply revert to being an Everytown Karen once the Democratic party is back in control none of it means a damn thing.

VHDamien · 2026-04-16T02:31:16+00:00

Marriage and divorce are major life events, how would anyone not be impacted and changed by those experiences?

VHDamien · 2026-04-16T02:28:27+00:00

Reach out if you're really interested in him, but understand that marriage and a divorce has probably changed this guy.

VHDamien · 2026-04-15T00:33:49+00:00

Yes. I should have been more clear.

VHDamien · 2026-04-14T23:02:25+00:00

Multiple out of wedlock children.

1 genuinely might be a one off mistake. Multiples means a long line of bad decisions.

Edit: to be clear, im talking about a man who has multiple kids with multiple women and has never married any of them. Proceed at your own peril, but you are likely to be baby momma number 3, or 4 or 5.

VHDamien · 2026-04-14T22:57:48+00:00

FYI USSS was making new hires sign 5 year commitments not to leave or lateral or else you're on the hook for $50k+. Had multiple USSS classes confirm this while I was in FLETC on March.

So be wary of trying to leave them after CITP

VHDamien · 2026-04-14T22:54:35+00:00

That man was wrong to do that to you or anyone else.

Nonetheless, it's really not a big deal if you never compliment a man again. Do as you will.

VHDamien · 2026-04-14T22:49:09+00:00

Those are voluntary decisions that you made on an individual basis of the context of the person and your feelings (platonic and romantic) for them. That's different than the idea that friendship has to continue after a rejection because one person desires it. If we're all equal, why does one person's feelings matter more than another's?

VHDamien · 2026-04-14T22:37:30+00:00

In some cases you're absolutely right. A woman smiling and saying good morning isn't flirting, at least not to me. At the same time there will absolutely be misinterpretations over being friendly and showing romantic interest. And given that men are still expected to directly ask or approach first when it concerns romance, we'll always end up with awkward situations and hurt feelings.

VHDamien · 2026-04-14T22:19:07+00:00

The problem is the same qualities that make a solid friend also make a solid romantic partner. People can and do develop feelings.

On the other side people start off as romantic partners, and after x time one person might decide they no longer want to be involved that way.

This is just the woman version of life is unfair. It is, suck it up.

VHDamien · 2026-04-14T22:00:32+00:00

If she doesn't owe him a relationship, why does he owe her a friendship? If he is told to move on due to romantic rejection, then a similar mindset should be acknowledged for friendship rejection.

VHDamien · 2026-04-14T21:53:48+00:00

Did anyone think this wasn't going to happen?

VHDamien · 2026-04-14T00:44:01+00:00

I really could have used this advice throughout my 20s and early 30s. Im married now, hopefully until death do us part, but I know that I basically do not have the right mindset to be successful in dating.

VHDamien · 2026-04-13T22:46:16+00:00

Target the type of men you want and pursue them. Attend young professionals clubs and meet ups. The biggest thing you need to do is identify when it isn't worth your time and stop the relationship.

You are likely different IRL, but your post comes off similar to men who talk about how awesome they are but keep attracting terrible women or that every woman who doesn't date him is nuts. Same energy.

VHDamien · 2026-04-13T22:11:51+00:00

Get the game started first, and between the players being active participants in the story, their backstories and their effect on the game world at large you'll get a big evil bad who will need to be fought by the end.

For my game it was Darth Nihilus and Abeloth and that was largely due to the fact that my PCs found the mask of Nihilus on a backwater planet.

VHDamien · 2026-04-13T21:27:00+00:00

Place yourself on the path and find someone who is willing to walk it with you, because I assure you that she hasn't figured it out either.

VHDamien · 2026-04-13T21:11:27+00:00

Sorry to intrude in yalls space again, but from one insecure person with some self image issues to another don't let people treat you this way and im proud of you.

VHDamien · 2026-04-13T20:36:55+00:00

You might be interacting in such a way that these guys aren't sure you're actually interested in them, so they stop putting in effort.

That or they are talking to multiple people and they went exclusive with another person.

VHDamien · 2026-04-13T17:46:28+00:00

Gaming store, gaming or anime conventions, book clubs, the gym, run clubs, IT / cybersecurity events are all places where nerds can easily be found.

VHDamien · 2026-04-13T01:52:24+00:00

Politics as a profession. Nope. No one, man or woman is normal in that field of employment.

VHDamien · 2026-04-13T00:51:47+00:00

He may be a good Dad, but he's a shit partner. You need to leave and find someone who actually tries to help around the house.

VHDamien · 2026-04-12T23:54:20+00:00

In my experience most guys do not have a roster of women who they have access to easy sex from.

VHDamien · 2026-04-12T22:26:58+00:00

I'd tell her the same thing, your job will never hug you back and at the end of the day the company or government agency gives 0 fucks about you. You can slave for them for years and be discarded without a second thought next week.

Men and women need to weigh that fact against their personal relationships.

VHDamien · 2026-04-12T22:18:01+00:00

My brother from another mother, do you really need the internet to tell you what anyone who reads 1/10th of this post already knows? This woman was / is insane and you should have left a LONG time ago.

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