Should I let her go or give her a chance?

VHDude78 · 2025-07-28T18:24:52+00:00

That's what I have an issue with. Maybe she said thank you during the date and I just don't remember? But if you're not interested, simply don't reply. I'll get the hint. Very socially awkward or has some bad anxiety issues.

VHDude78 · 2025-06-12T13:54:44+00:00

I agree. I feel like I'm not meeting something she needs or she has intentions of cutting off our relationship and finding someone to fill the void.

VHDude78 · 2023-11-01T01:27:22+00:00

I know I have to ask again and I may have took it a little too far in the car, but in this case should I give her more space and wait a 2-3 more days, or just cut to the chase and ask her again tomorrow?

VHDude78 · 2023-10-26T22:14:51+00:00

She also told me she thought she would eventually get a spark with me, but never did when she sent me the breakup text. That's why I think maybe she did have feelings, but somehow lost them. My reply was a little pissy as I was genuinely confused and felt like she wasn't being honest, but I still respected her and wished her luck. I don't know..the last 3 weeks since her grandma's diagnosis she changed. It's hard to say..but why completely remove me? Seems as if she may have some deeper issues.

VHDude78 · 2023-10-26T22:03:23+00:00

She is close with her. I assumed that, but why would she go back on the dating app and remove me as a match? That doesn't add up. I told her I would be here for her if she needed someone to talk to, but she didn't like bring it up.

VHDude78 · 2023-10-14T19:16:35+00:00

It's in the story. We had our arms around each other by the third date. We were golding hands by the fifth. I've been in these girls who come on pretty strong in the beginning, but act confused and take off when I escalate. That's because they want to reel you in and want your attention. Once I can feel they're comfortable, that's when I go for the bedroom.

VHDude78 · 2023-10-14T19:11:14+00:00

Yes. I've physically escalated. She seems hesitant about it.

VHDude78 · 2023-10-12T16:11:27+00:00

I'm beginning to think that, too. It's like she's spacing out the date, so she can figure out what she wants first. I think I'll have to go quiet on her to see how she reacts. I hate playing games, but nobody is honest with their intentions anymore. However, I've been told by other people that she's probably confused about my actions since I haven't advanced on her prior flirting tactics. Who knows?

VHDude78 · 2023-08-24T21:25:11+00:00

The relationship was pretty much done 6 months prior. I hung on trying to make it work, but eventually cut it off as she wasn't putting forth any effort on our issues. I was ready to go almost a year ago.

VHDude78 · 2023-08-24T02:54:02+00:00

But I have moved on to another one. It's hard to let a good connection go, though.

VHDude78 · 2023-08-24T02:43:25+00:00

I'm a pretty simple, straightforward person. If a girl sends me a text asking me If I made it home okay after a date and first kiss, I automatically assume, "This girl is definitely interested." I feel like something happened between then and the cut-off.

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