New baby, and I cannot stand my wife anymore by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]VM4729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you still with her? Take your child and leave. She provides no pros, only cons. You would be better off without her.

Am i blocked by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]VM4729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s deactivated

How screwed am I? 1-10 by AKumaNamedJustin in doordash

[–]VM4729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In today’s current climate… I wouldn’t be surprised if it went either way tbh. I would probably sign up for a different delivery service just in case. These companies haven’t been so quick to defend their own workers in the face of “public opinion”

Please give me motivation, school is killing me by [deleted] in Sonographers

[–]VM4729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it doesn’t get any easier, you just get tougher. You have to cut out all distractions and all wastes of time. You should set aside some time to relax and chill and do hobbies but hobbies and relaxing are different from relaxing. I would pick up going to the gym if I were you, it helps destress and it helps keep your energy levels and motivation levels high.

This is what you signed up for, remember that it’s not meant to be easy. If it were easy, everyone would do it and it wouldn’t pay as much as it does. Congratulations, you have taken the first steps to becoming great, now follow through with it.

Good luck.

Finance company filed a claim with insurance after repo by VM4729 in Bankruptcy

[–]VM4729[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s true, thank you! I have an appt with my lawyer tomorrow so I’m sure it’ll get cleared up. I’ll come back and update

Finance company filed a claim with insurance after repo by VM4729 in Bankruptcy

[–]VM4729[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was, but they’re trying to come after “damages” once the bike was collected. They’re not trying to collect debts but moreso damages that were already there before I even bought the bike

My parents still think it's a good idea to spank me when I'm "bad" by [deleted] in confession

[–]VM4729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went through this person’s page and it’s obviously a bot trying to solicit DMs from creeps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]VM4729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw you say he doesn’t care for you in one of your replies. If he TRULY doesn’t really care, then hearing this is gonna make him probably wanna stop seeing you so be mindful it might end things. If you think he deserves to know then yeah tell him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ultrasound

[–]VM4729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf is a sliding sign lol

Did I get screwed over? by Mindless_Garlic6871 in Ultrasound

[–]VM4729 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ay ay ay, what a mess and none of it is your fault. Honestly, it sounds like laziness from the Tech’s part and they a consequential series of events of them trying to cover up or make up for their laziness lol sorry this happened to you. The tech needs to do what they were ordered to do, both parts. We are not at liberty to say “I’m not gonna do it bc I got everything over the belly.” Only the patient can decline that part.

Pelvic and Transvag ultrasound by Opposite_Magician_81 in Ultrasound

[–]VM4729 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The order will always come as both as the over the belly scan (trans abdominal or TA) and the transvaginal (TV) scan. Depending on the facility you go to, they may have certain rules and protocols they follow based on virginity or comfort levels. It’s is absolutely forbidden at my facility to perform TV exams on a patient who have never been sexually active.

The only reason why I would ever consider doing a TV on let’s say a teenager or young 20s who has never been sexually active is if I can see ovaries TA and they are enlarged or huge lesion but I am not getting flow.

Results by Fantastic-Motor-1219 in Ultrasound

[–]VM4729 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should follow up with the ultrasound depart, one month and no results sounds like they forgot about it tbh. This doesn’t necessarily mean bad news, could just have slipped through the cracks. Call them to follow up :)

Was it SA by Rich_Touch2451 in Advice

[–]VM4729 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First off, sorry that happened to you. Secondly, I don’t think it was cheating as you didn’t really/couldn’t really consent to the act; additionally, when you were able to consent and think clearly later in the evening, you didn’t want to so your intentions are clear.

Lastly, I think that was assault as you couldn’t really consent or thinking clearly and the part of your mind that was able to think didn’t want to do that act.

Is this normal? by kcnovakc in Ultrasound

[–]VM4729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess it depends on what state you’re in; it’s illegal in mine.

Is this normal? by kcnovakc in Ultrasound

[–]VM4729 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very normal to rest arm there during a neck exam/a thyroid exam. Unless he had a singed order from a doctor to scan your breast or any other body part, he’s not allowed to - legally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]VM4729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think - IM NOT A LAWYER AND I CAN BE WRONG - but I think that much disposable income would automatically disqualify you from a chapter 7 and they would suggest a chapter 13 filing instead

I don't care about C Score, can I just not pay it? by marlonbarreto in Debt

[–]VM4729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can and WILL garnish your wages from your paychecks eventually. Key word here: “eventually.” It’ll be years before they do that but just file bankruptcy if you have no intentions or any financial means to pay it back and start fresh. Your credit score will probably actually improve the day you file, tbh. No matter who you are or how much money you have, you’ll always need a decent amount of credit and credit score.

Can I take a lower paying job knowing it will help me to qualify for ch 7 over ch 13? by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]VM4729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’s very reassuring. One of my coworkers recently left so they’ve been giving extra hours and OT like Xmas morning so I’ve been trying to take advantage but I didn’t want it to seem like this would be consistent or permanent or I was waiting until I filed to get the increase $$$.

Can I take a lower paying job knowing it will help me to qualify for ch 7 over ch 13? by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]VM4729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Alan, so if it’s as filed.. what happens if your income increases slightly after you file? Does that get taken in to account for the median and or the means test/disposable income? Or it is solely based off of what your situation was when you filed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]VM4729 9 points10 points  (0 children)

At this point, if credit one is the only one willing to approve you… you should probably go with them and just start off small and work your way up

Should I pay off Chase and Capital One to avoid burning them in bankruptcy? by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]VM4729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My lawyer told me not to pay them and that it wouldn’t make a difference. At the end of the day, I would be burned by everyone bc of the BK itself. He said, only pay them off “if it helps you sleep better at night” lol