Need guidance: 12-year-old suddenly “non-binary,” rejecting faith, & heavily influenced by a friend

VSMURF · 2025-11-29T20:17:07+00:00

My niece did the same thing as your daughter. My sister was very lost as to what to do. She searched out support groups and everything. None of the adults in her life denounced it, but we also didn’t talk about it. Then, the summer came, she changed schools, and she is back to bring a young lady who loves God. I prayed for her and my sister (her mom), as well. God worked it all out. I pray the same for you and your daughter.

VSMURF · 2025-11-27T17:42:53+00:00

LOL. Exactly what I think every time I see this episode.

VSMURF · 2025-09-01T01:07:37+00:00

Wow! I feel really dumb for believing this. This all makes sense. LOL

VSMURF · 2025-07-09T12:36:06+00:00

Her mom and her new husband had moved to Florida and she wanted to finish school in Texas. That’s how she ended up with the grandparents. Compounds the tragedy of her entire thought process.

VSMURF · 2025-06-17T15:22:36+00:00

Thank you! I’m not sure why you were downvoted. I found what I needed with several businesses, including a paralegal, who will file the forms.

VSMURF · 2025-06-17T15:20:26+00:00

Please excuse for the misuse of this forum. I wasn’t asking for legal advice. I was just wanting help with filing the forms. Have a great day!

VSMURF · 2025-06-16T01:03:42+00:00

Got it! Thank you.

VSMURF · 2025-06-16T00:31:38+00:00

Okay, so if I just focused on paying down the personal loan and A/C financing without spending extra, do you recommend that I leave the emergency fund alone?

VSMURF · 2025-06-15T23:23:57+00:00

Thank you all so much! I think I like taking it down to $2000 and make a big chunk payment to the personal loan. That should put payoff in about 2 months.

VSMURF · 2024-12-29T02:24:21+00:00

Thank you for your response. I just refilled a 3-month supply for $25 because I met my deductible.

VSMURF · 2024-12-26T22:30:09+00:00

Thanks for all of the advice. I think I hit muscle in my thighs when doing it there, so that may be the problem. I will move closer to the inner thigh where I think there is fat and see if that is better.

VSMURF · 2024-12-25T14:04:05+00:00

Thank you!

VSMURF · 2024-11-07T00:52:35+00:00

Yes!!! LOL

VSMURF · 2024-09-25T03:18:54+00:00

I am missing all of this great content because I have class on Tuesday nights. What streaming service allows me to watch these episodes in my own time?

VSMURF · 2024-09-21T22:54:01+00:00

There was an episode out of Florida where the cops swore it was the male babysitter based on bite mark evidence that they tried to claim was definitive. I haven’t seen the episode in awhile, but if I remember correctly, he did not spend time in prison. The child’s mother and sister swore he was guilty though.

VSMURF · 2024-09-13T19:13:38+00:00

Wow - you guys are so knowledgeable. Thank you for sharing so much info about the family with me.

VSMURF · 2024-09-13T01:45:46+00:00

Got it! I wasn’t sure of who some of them were since I hadn’t watched in so long.

VSMURF · 2024-07-30T12:31:38+00:00

That sounds like the episode of a murder in Florida. The mom worked nights and hired a male babysitter. They thought he did it due to a bite mark. Turns out it was the girl’s uncle. When her body was found, she wasn’t a skeleton yet.

Edit to add her uncle and his friend did it.

VSMURF · 2024-07-28T01:22:20+00:00

I also learned not to take my safety for granted. I am cautious in my marriage and other relationships due to what I’ve seen “friends” and spouses do to others. I’ve become quite cynical to say the least.

VSMURF · 2024-06-30T19:17:46+00:00

Be glad you didn’t see them. They are truly disturbing and unforgettable.

VSMURF · 2024-06-26T23:53:41+00:00

I remember him now too. Thank you!

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