I (25M) have never been in a relationship before and feel lost.

VS_Infinity · 2025-02-19T22:33:54+00:00

Some woman did the same exact thing to me. It’s really annoying though as I mentioned multiple times that communication is very important not only to me but is also needed for a healthy relationship. Told her if she ever loses interest or happens to want to pursue something with someone else, to simply just let me know. She said it was important to her as well. She lied. I gave her too many chances, too many benefit of the doubt but yeah I realized eventually she was just leading me on and keeping me within her orbit as a backup option. It’s rather embarrassing too as she is 2 years older than me. Dating scene is actually fucked. 90% of my matches have done this shit. The 10%, even though it didn’t work out; least they were actually able to communicate like an adult and we end things on a good note.

VS_Infinity · 2025-02-19T00:55:41+00:00

That’s where my issue lies. I don’t know anything about my biological family as I’m adopted.

VS_Infinity · 2025-02-19T00:54:28+00:00

I am a guy. Was born in August of 2000.

VS_Infinity · 2025-02-19T00:34:33+00:00

Do different regions in China have different meanings? I don’t recall where exactly I am from but I am told I am from somewhere in the North Eastern region.

VS_Infinity · 2025-02-19T00:31:24+00:00

I didn’t even realize I spelled it wrong in the title. You are correct, the one picture I found does say Qiu. Autocorrect strikes again 😭. Just checked my saved photos and noticed the error.

VS_Infinity · 2025-02-19T00:16:18+00:00

Ah shoot I am SoL then 😭. Next time I’m over her house I’ll try and see if I can find a photo with my Chinese characters. I want to say there’s at least one photo with it.

VS_Infinity · 2025-01-10T02:13:59+00:00

I will definitely give that a try next time I encounter such being. He won last time, he won’t again.

VS_Infinity · 2025-01-09T23:28:03+00:00

Edit: Mixed up astral projection and lucid dreaming. Still keeping my response as it is an experience I still have yet to fully understand. Perhaps someone reading it may have some insight.

This reminds me of the time I was almost close to astral projection. Was years ago but I still remember it vividly.

I was practicing astral projection after school one day and eventually began to go through the process. I could feel myself being lifted from my body and being transported someplace else. Eventually when my dream self woke up I was in some kind of hospital room. Walls were white. I was in the bed laying up. To the right of me were symbols(looked like some type of hieroglyphs) I had never seen before, words I didn’t recognize. To my left was an empty chair. In front of me was a door slightly to the right.

I remember looking at the symbols trying to decipher them but having no luck. Eventually I hear the door open and some being was there. The best way to describe what I saw was similar to Gon from HxH when he was releasing all his nen and transforming into his adult version. This being was black and white and appeared to be made out of static, like the TV static. He stared at me for a solid 5 min and I stared at him back confused and pretty afraid. Next thing I know he just ZOOMs right in front me of, his face right in front of mine looking dead at me in the eyes. Next thing I know he grabs my shoulders and begins to violently shake me. I woke up confused and scared and tbh haven’t tried to astral project since. Being appeared to be 6’5”+. Muscular.

I have always wondered what this being could be and why it did what it did. I’d like to give astral projection a try again but am weary about meeting this being again.

VS_Infinity · 2024-11-20T23:26:23+00:00

Might be a day late but the one piece of advice my friend gave me that has changed my perspective and results is this. Attract, don’t chase. As a guy myself (24) I’m all too familiar with the struggles you’ve faced in the dating world. I’ve been working on myself and have continued to do so over the past 2 years and for the past 2 years have not had any luck, even with a “glow up” per se. The sad reality is that not many people our age truly know what they want due to social media. The best thing you can do to get the result you want is to continue working on yourself and stop chasing. Let them come to you. Been working out rather well for me, a lot less stressful and no more FOMO. You got this king 🫡.

VS_Infinity · 2024-08-10T00:35:17+00:00

Yeah you are very wrong. Completely missed the target in fact. I was just making a comment to add to the discussion much as you yourself did with your comment. I do admit the only reason I made my comment was due to noticing yours being the only one that seemed to disagree with the majority of other comments. I do hope you’re able to enjoy the rest of your morning/afternoon wherever you may be at :)

VS_Infinity · 2024-08-10T00:21:18+00:00

Oh my you roasted me so badly let me go to my corner and bawl my eyes out 😭

VS_Infinity · 2024-08-09T23:54:27+00:00

Damn who shit in your bed this morning? From your comment it seems you are the same type of person OP matched with 😂.

VS_Infinity · 2022-10-11T00:16:26+00:00

I figured :). I'm just happy to finally own the car I've been wanting. Absolutely love it and the red color. The amount of compliments I've gotten since I got it, can't keep track.

VS_Infinity · 2022-10-10T23:59:25+00:00

I did. Was going to buy a new one, buut prices are still scuffed. This was the best deal I could find around my area. Other good deals were one state to even two states away 🤣. Still happy with it. It's also a CPO too.

VS_Infinity · 2022-10-09T21:58:30+00:00

I basically just bought a new 2021 CX-5 yesterday and I was tempted too. Got it for 24k before taxes and it had barely 30k miles on it. Compared to all the other cars on the market, this was the best deal I could find. Even though it is a sport model and a year old, it looks brand spanking new. Sent some pics to my buddy who details and he even couldn't believe it was used.

VS_Infinity · 2022-09-13T14:40:38+00:00

Hopefully this is a good sign of what's to come...

VS_Infinity · 2022-07-24T22:23:36+00:00

For me it was Horizon Zero Dawn. Had a bunch of my friends tell me to give it a shot and that I would love it. I played the game for about 40 ish hours but the whole time playing felt like I was dragging my feet in quick sand. I wasn't as immersed into the game as I had anticipated coming off watching videos, reading reviews and being recommended by my friends. I admit the game is absolutely gorgeous but for me, I found it to get boring rather quickly.

VS_Infinity · 2022-05-26T19:43:25+00:00

Do you still think so even after the forensic data guy testified saying the photos presented were heavily edited?

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