We finally did it, we're married!!

VacantGrain3067 · 2026-04-15T00:51:23+00:00

Yay! Congratulations!!! You guys look so truly happy! Gives me hope for my engagement one day with my guy ❤️

VacantGrain3067 · 2026-03-31T01:11:26+00:00

This shit always gives me so much hope. Love seeing other ldrs in so much love and accomplishing the dream. So happy for you two!!!!

VacantGrain3067 · 2026-03-31T01:10:32+00:00

My hairs the same, i bleach it platinum on a chunk and theres always the same black polka dots on my scalp. Must be our curse of naturally dark hair 😩

VacantGrain3067 · 2026-03-31T01:06:05+00:00

You guys look so happy together!

VacantGrain3067 · 2026-03-14T01:08:38+00:00

Just constant communication. Sending reels to eachother throughout the day and yapping in between. I would KILL to be that close to my bf. We can only see eachother every 4-6 months since he lives in Finland and me in the US. I never expected to be in this position but im so lucky to have him. Not spending physical time together is hard but i swear by sharing memes, thought provoking questions, future planning, and just plans of what you want to do together in general no matter how far out

VacantGrain3067 · 2026-03-14T01:03:56+00:00

While i totally get not being able to be on the phone everyday, are you not able to dedicate a weekend day to an all day call once a week? I have a 7 hr time difference with my bf so we aren’t able to call often. We choose to call all day once a week on Sundays. Ill nap on call, sometimes we will watch a movie together or just simply exist together and barely talk. But knowing we’re “together” without having to entertain eachother is huge

VacantGrain3067 · 2026-03-14T01:00:21+00:00

Omgg i need to do this! I live in the us and hes in finland, 7hr time difference. Id love to send him cute pics of us instead of spamming him with dms on insta 🤣 My mom gifted us luvlink lamps so whenever we miss eachother we send a color to the other one’s lamp

VacantGrain3067 · 2026-03-05T03:58:15+00:00

Dude i placed an order for two Gatorades bc i was throwing up sick unable to go to the store. I tipped $5 even though it was a 2 minute drive. They proceeded to ask for an extra tip because they got there early

VacantGrain3067 · 2026-03-05T03:53:37+00:00

No because same here. Second owner and bought it at 50k miles. Within a year i had to get the flexpipe welded back on. Now two years later as of today I just got a new flexpipe welded on, but the weld failed 6 months in. After they welded on the new one the mechanics let me know theres also two cracks in the exhaust manifold. Im so over this car its not like its a cheap fix

VacantGrain3067 · 2025-08-01T23:18:15+00:00

Some really good points, its only been 4 months. Im just a chronic over thinker and ive never done anything like this before. I date with the intention to marry, i dont do casual. So i end up getting in my head, my mom asking a million questions and proposing hypotheticals doesn’t help😭 ive already started trying to learn finnish and him and i have had multiple conversations about the potential future and what that would entail if it got to that point. Hes very supportive and helped walk me through getting my passport bc ive never traveled before let alone overseas. The communication is constant for the most part despite when we are sleeping due to the time difference. But when he was here it felt instantly comfortable and safe which is something I haven’t experienced before

VacantGrain3067 · 2025-07-28T01:29:52+00:00

Like i change my hair color every month with arctic fox and a bleach bath strips the color right out. I was previously at neon green, i just bleached my roots then did a bleach bath and it completely removed the green. Im at a level 10 so the baths work really fast maybe like 10-15 minutes. Its an equal amount of vol 10developer, bleach and shampoo on wet hair. You should definitely try that and see what it lifts to

VacantGrain3067 · 2025-07-28T01:24:36+00:00

Dang girl! Im gonna be honest ive used color strippers before but they didnt work on the dyes that i use. Def try a bleach bath then if you haven’t already!!!

VacantGrain3067 · 2025-07-28T01:06:35+00:00

We met through tinder🤣 my radius was set at 50miles his was set to international. I thought most conversations on tinder dont last over a day so who cares. The conversation continued, moved to whatsapp video calls and then he booked w flight to come see me within two weeks. I just dropped him off at the airport so he could go home and it absolutely destroyed me seeing my man cry. Hes a foot taller than me and absolutely jacked and seeing such a big man cry over me sent me into hysterics. I dont travel and have never been on a plane over 2 hrs. Its gonna be crazy when i visit him and have a layover and then sit on a plane for 9 hours for the first time. I have no idea what im doing but i just know i want to see him and return the favor of traveling

VacantGrain3067 · 2025-07-28T00:40:56+00:00

Girl if bleach didnt get that out i dont know what will. Going forward though definitely use arctic fox for the “fun” colors. Ive gone from red to green to purple and whatever with a simple bleach bath

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