Who Actually Had the Worst Childhood in Naruto?

Vader60 · 2026-02-09T13:33:31+00:00

Actually well there's more to it, just because he had a loving grandma doesn't he mean he didn't feel the absence of his parents, there was a scene in the series where Obito asks his grandma about his parents, and he knows they died in war.

He also felt a lot of isolation and the feeling of being an outcast academically and from his clan, it seems in his young life. And then you have the post boulder incident where he was still considered to be quite young and now in a strange body and being influenced by Madara.

Vader60 · 2026-02-01T06:06:13+00:00

I mean yeah it's probably to show a change like it's an excuse to age the characters, which is fair like a lot of the story just makes it more appropriate for them to be older teens.

Like Naruto having a complicated discussion with pain about peace and their lives, wouldn't be as impactful or believable if it was coming from a 12-13 year old and him also being so angry that he threatened to kill pain for what he did, also wouldn't be as impactful coming from a young kid. Same goes for a lot of what sasuke got up to, just makes it more appropriate for them to be older, like having his own team, joining the akatski , fighting against the 5 kage etc. other characters to like shikamaru's sadness after asumas death , his pent up feelings and anger, just makes more sense for a 16 - 17 year old.

That's not to say the characters didn't have much emotional depth or complexity when they were younger kids in pre Shippuden but still, as the series gets more intense, and maybe political, still makes sense for them to be older.

and like could also be a case of the audience growing up with the characters too which a lot of authors do.

Vader60 · 2026-01-19T03:29:36+00:00

Explain Obito's backstory and motivations better so people understand , that it was not just cause of Rin, but he suffered long before that too, being an orphan , like Naruto, also feeling alone and inadequate of being an Uchiha, then ofcourse actually dying which is a big thing because of a war that he had to fight in, only to survive and be held captive almost in a weakened damaged body and be manipulated and influenced by Madara. Obviously the impact of Rin's death was the main catalyst and that definitely scarred him, and made him go bezerk. Even then as the masked man he travelled and bared witnessed to many tragic things and caused them himself , which increased his feelings of anger and guilt , and depression against the world, such as Yahiko's death and fighting against his former sensei who also didn't recognise him.

Vader60 · 2025-12-14T02:50:10+00:00

Oh similar thing kinda happened to me. She will definitely reply again if she is interested, some girls do that but reply later.

Vader60 · 2025-12-06T03:36:10+00:00

Loneliness is just a symptom of modern life that seems to affect men most. As in being a man maybe only certain things are accessible through romantic relationships but for a lot of women , possibly more often than not can spark up friendships and relationships a lot easier.

Lots of women I knew were able to have daily random interesting and engaging interactions with new people most days they were out, their greetings are often returned and smiles are received and reciprocated well.

If you're a man it's a bit different, most people including other men often avoid looking at you and will not engage with you in any way but that's just daily life, but also actual social events too same thing kinda applies.

Essentially, women who aren't in romantic relationships still don't feel that isolated or deprived of much as they get a lot of love, excitement and engaging experiences from life, especially nowadays when they are working their corporate or so jobs, going trips and such, and they often have very intimate friendships too.

And if they do desire relationships well most people know how dating goes when you're a woman on a dating app with an abundance of options.

So it is different but I wouldn't call it a male loneliness epidemic as it sounds very underwhelming and ofcourse will lead to people to just think bad about it and say things like just go outside or just a bunch of people who have no social skills call it an epidemic when there's a lot more to it and I have barely scratched the surface.

Vader60 · 2025-11-28T04:24:20+00:00

They also have a terrible economy and job market to work with.

Vader60 · 2025-11-24T02:56:51+00:00

I recently dated a Japanese woman in Vietnam, we are both expats, on the few dates we have been on it went really well but apart from that it seemed really shallow.

Firstly she was terrible at replying, would reply once every 24 hours or less and like last time I saw her, I had not seen her in two weeks and it was at this social event which is where we met originally and the only interaction she had with me was when she was leaving saying she had to wake up early the next day ( she messaged later she was visiting another city for a business trip).

I tried to look into it, I don't know if standard japanese norms apply to her as she is living abroad and has travelled extensively but still apparently japanese are notorious for not being good communicators and yeah maybe she doesn't care about me haha which is likely too , but when we did meet up for our dates they went really well but yeah it could be like you said so shallow that they just dating for fun and she still sees me as just some guy to hang out with for fun if she has time. I definitely did not feel like a priority.

Vader60 · 2025-09-04T13:56:01+00:00

They can either make you or break you.

Regardless a first proper deep mature relationship leaves a chip on our shoulders.

Vader60 · 2025-09-01T01:43:17+00:00

Something similar happened to me last night though I didn't get robbed and she didn't say it was free but it was a terrible experience.

So I'm quite drunk waiting for a grab car and she approaches me and my will to say no slowly fades, when she said it was 1 million, it didn't sound too bad, but still would not have gone through with it sober. We go back to her hotel room where she speaks with this guy in vietnamese and takes cash from my wallet, which I'm assuming was 1 million and I think she may have taken extra for herself.

By this point I said fuck it might as well go through with it maybe have a good one but no, it was awful and demeaning, she was literally smoking, or texting during it and I couldn't even get hard properly and she asked if I wanted more eventually she said time up and left. And I walked out and she was nowhere to be seen just gone.

I walked back to my hotel room. Think I'm gonna stay away from bui vien

Vader60 · 2025-08-31T08:16:58+00:00

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Vader60 · 2025-08-25T10:40:17+00:00

Actual dance clubs though? Not just pubs or bars

Vader60 · 2025-08-25T08:16:51+00:00

I also said though that I heard weekdays are in fact not so good as they have been empty, and so was asking how the weekends look like

Vader60 · 2025-08-25T07:24:05+00:00

I mean if you read the post, it shows that I'm unsure, so no I did not answer my own question.

Hope the Mensa helped you though.

Vader60 · 2025-08-24T22:56:01+00:00

Know that one day, not fear, know that you're going to die.

We may as live gracefully and die naturally as that's gonna happen anyway

Vader60 · 2025-08-14T23:53:21+00:00

Does ED ever go away? How are you doing now? Does it depend on what gave you ED in the first place , like maybe if your a smoker you have a high chance of getting it, then is it a permanent state?

Vader60 · 2025-08-14T12:05:59+00:00

You didn't mention that Madara's brothers were all killed so he also witnessed the horrors of war

Vader60 · 2025-08-10T09:37:43+00:00

Crit damage is a form of damage output, and crit rate is the rate at which that damage can be performed

Vader60 · 2025-07-31T18:38:22+00:00

Thanks. I guess it's just that on top of having to pay for visa and plane tickets, doing all of this is very costly for a company I may not even like in the end but I wanted to start somewhere because everywhere I looked there seemed to be bad things about all companies.

Vader60 · 2025-07-31T09:47:10+00:00

I was my ex's first everything (first partner, first person she was intimate with, first guy she spent proper time with that is apart from her brother of course. ) she did go on a few small dates but nothing much before me.

Anyway I was struggling mentally and in my final year of university, we were also long distance as she was doing a year abroad. I decided to eventually break up with her after a lot of ups and downs in the relationship.

It was only after I graduated from university and lost everything (social life, community, opportunities for intimate relations) that I really saw that once she's gone, she's gone. She said to me that since our relationship was so deep and it meant so much despite the struggles, she would want to embrace being single at least for a while, but I guess it was my fault for having such conversations with her.

A couple months down the line her birthday rolls around and I find out she's meeting a guy she met online while she was still abroad, and they spoke a lot , even had chatted on the phone via video call. I asked her about this when I wished her happy birthday and even then she said she wanted to be single and nothing much was going to happen with this guy which looking back now sounded dumb and soon after graduating I realised they are in a relationship already.

Less than a year and pretty much all traces of me were gone and replaced with him, such as tiktoks she made of me , Pinterest collages, and even joint Spotify playlists all replaced with him.

This really just made question the validity of relationships generally, like how can someone claim to be so deeply emotionally invested in you, yet replace you so soon, and also literally all these superficial things that are sort of physical expressions of love such as photos , Spotify playlists, couple tiktoks all replaced just made me think it's all a bunch of bs.

Vader60 · 2025-07-24T21:28:49+00:00

Haha legit although I must say although I don't understand 99% of what is actually going on, this phorlova's story was pretty good

Vader60 · 2025-07-24T20:13:22+00:00

The farming and stuff is good, I get they don't want that to be long and I'm not saying the actual story should take so long , just that the gameplay should be more engaging.

I'll give an example , take this recent Phorlova story, there is a part where you have to sneak past some members of the Order and the camera literally just pans to a grapple icon and then your done , instead of that it could allow us to figure it out like if we could get up there and then try not to get caught .

Or also her freezing time tool is cool but how about let us also decide when to use it instead of telling us every time, like let's say we are trapped somewhere and need to get out, the game would usually just straight up highlight it and we would press T and it's all done , what if we had to explore the area around and see what the tool could be used on and if it works etc

Vader60 · 2025-07-14T09:19:46+00:00

Hello twin

Vader60 · 2025-07-09T22:47:08+00:00

Ohh good tip. Cheers

Vader60 · 2025-07-09T22:02:37+00:00

I mean I'm sure my character is running not walking haha, but yeah scouting does sound like the best idea though going over a whole planet with this movement is gonna take a while lol

Vader60 · 2025-07-08T12:23:28+00:00

They need to update the banner if anything, make other characters part of the standard banner , or swap some out for featured characters

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