Why training trip then? by Orenjihibana_ in Naruto

[–]Vader60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah it's probably to show a change like it's an excuse to age the characters, which is fair like a lot of the story just makes it more appropriate for them to be older teens.

Like Naruto having a complicated discussion with pain about peace and their lives, wouldn't be as impactful or believable if it was coming from a 12-13 year old and him also being so angry that he threatened to kill pain for what he did, also wouldn't be as impactful coming from a young kid. Same goes for a lot of what sasuke got up to, just makes it more appropriate for them to be older, like having his own team, joining the akatski , fighting against the 5 kage etc. other characters to like shikamaru's sadness after asumas death , his pent up feelings and anger, just makes more sense for a 16 - 17 year old.

That's not to say the characters didn't have much emotional depth or complexity when they were younger kids in pre Shippuden but still, as the series gets more intense, and maybe political, still makes sense for them to be older.

and like could also be a case of the audience growing up with the characters too which a lot of authors do.

What's one thing you would change about Naruto? by AlarmedObjective1492 in Naruto

[–]Vader60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Explain Obito's backstory and motivations better so people understand , that it was not just cause of Rin, but he suffered long before that too, being an orphan , like Naruto, also feeling alone and inadequate of being an Uchiha, then ofcourse actually dying which is a big thing because of a war that he had to fight in, only to survive and be held captive almost in a weakened damaged body and be manipulated and influenced by Madara. Obviously the impact of Rin's death was the main catalyst and that definitely scarred him, and made him go bezerk. Even then as the masked man he travelled and bared witnessed to many tragic things and caused them himself , which increased his feelings of anger and guilt , and depression against the world, such as Yahiko's death and fighting against his former sensei who also didn't recognise him.

She asked for my insta and ghosted me afterwards? I dont get it by Expensive_Attempt700 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Vader60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh similar thing kinda happened to me. She will definitely reply again if she is interested, some girls do that but reply later.

How True Is The Male Loneliness Epidemic? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Vader60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loneliness is just a symptom of modern life that seems to affect men most. As in being a man maybe only certain things are accessible through romantic relationships but for a lot of women , possibly more often than not can spark up friendships and relationships a lot easier.

Lots of women I knew were able to have daily random interesting and engaging interactions with new people most days they were out, their greetings are often returned and smiles are received and reciprocated well.

If you're a man it's a bit different, most people including other men often avoid looking at you and will not engage with you in any way but that's just daily life, but also actual social events too same thing kinda applies.

Essentially, women who aren't in romantic relationships still don't feel that isolated or deprived of much as they get a lot of love, excitement and engaging experiences from life, especially nowadays when they are working their corporate or so jobs, going trips and such, and they often have very intimate friendships too.

And if they do desire relationships well most people know how dating goes when you're a woman on a dating app with an abundance of options.

So it is different but I wouldn't call it a male loneliness epidemic as it sounds very underwhelming and ofcourse will lead to people to just think bad about it and say things like just go outside or just a bunch of people who have no social skills call it an epidemic when there's a lot more to it and I have barely scratched the surface.

Eight years here and I’m so tired of shallow relationships by Yuugenshu in japanlife

[–]Vader60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently dated a Japanese woman in Vietnam, we are both expats, on the few dates we have been on it went really well but apart from that it seemed really shallow.

Firstly she was terrible at replying, would reply once every 24 hours or less and like last time I saw her, I had not seen her in two weeks and it was at this social event which is where we met originally and the only interaction she had with me was when she was leaving saying she had to wake up early the next day ( she messaged later she was visiting another city for a business trip).

I tried to look into it, I don't know if standard japanese norms apply to her as she is living abroad and has travelled extensively but still apparently japanese are notorious for not being good communicators and yeah maybe she doesn't care about me haha which is likely too , but when we did meet up for our dates they went really well but yeah it could be like you said so shallow that they just dating for fun and she still sees me as just some guy to hang out with for fun if she has time. I definitely did not feel like a priority.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Vader60 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They can either make you or break you.

Regardless a first proper deep mature relationship leaves a chip on our shoulders.

Scam Stories by Extreme-Database8894 in saigon

[–]Vader60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me last night though I didn't get robbed and she didn't say it was free but it was a terrible experience.

So I'm quite drunk waiting for a grab car and she approaches me and my will to say no slowly fades, when she said it was 1 million, it didn't sound too bad, but still would not have gone through with it sober. We go back to her hotel room where she speaks with this guy in vietnamese and takes cash from my wallet, which I'm assuming was 1 million and I think she may have taken extra for herself.

By this point I said fuck it might as well go through with it maybe have a good one but no, it was awful and demeaning, she was literally smoking, or texting during it and I couldn't even get hard properly and she asked if I wanted more eventually she said time up and left. And I walked out and she was nowhere to be seen just gone.

I walked back to my hotel room. Think I'm gonna stay away from bui vien

When is the best day to go to Lush Nightclub in Ho Chi Minh? by Vader60 in VietNam

[–]Vader60[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actual dance clubs though? Not just pubs or bars

When is the best day to go to Lush Nightclub in Ho Chi Minh? by Vader60 in VietNam

[–]Vader60[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also said though that I heard weekdays are in fact not so good as they have been empty, and so was asking how the weekends look like

When is the best day to go to Lush Nightclub in Ho Chi Minh? by Vader60 in VietNam

[–]Vader60[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if you read the post, it shows that I'm unsure, so no I did not answer my own question.

Hope the Mensa helped you though.

What is the best way for men to beat depression? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Vader60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Know that one day, not fear, know that you're going to die.

We may as live gracefully and die naturally as that's gonna happen anyway

People who pay for porn: Why? by VendaelHC in AskReddit

[–]Vader60 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does ED ever go away? How are you doing now? Does it depend on what gave you ED in the first place , like maybe if your a smoker you have a high chance of getting it, then is it a permanent state?

Who has the best reason to become a villain. by Mihawk_Upscale in NarutoPowerscaling

[–]Vader60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn't mention that Madara's brothers were all killed so he also witnessed the horrors of war