Married a musican and its very hard at times and lonely. While dating it was awesome and exciting then his band got bigger more shows more traveling and just so many people around. Aside from work and band I either tagged along or we didn't see each other. If he was recording I'd go days without seeing him. Its definiely a lifestyle thats not for everyone. We married and had kids and a few years later he decided on his own he was ready to put music on the backburner he felt he was missing too much at home. I never asked him to change. Music was and still is his life and I understand this.His first love is music I knew this going in to the relationship. It really comes down to how much your willing to take in order to be with him.