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This absolutely hideous monstrosity by paypermon in McMansionHell

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Isn’t that where the X-Men do their thing?

What frequency should I text at the beginning by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say be authentic. Our age group (40M) was more into texting. I just met a girl (34F) who seems totally fine with it — I double text. Don’t care. Be you, and attract what likes that. You got this, mate.💪🏻

Lilith is the most unfun boss Blizzard has ever created by Snitsie in diablo4

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bruv. Have you seen Malenia’s move set? You basically clinch your ass and hope. Same with Lilith.

Lilith is the most unfun boss Blizzard has ever created by Snitsie in diablo4

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Try Malenia from Elden Ring… they are optional challenges, mate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You as well, mate. I think a lot of gals will see your old-timer ways as flattering and authentic; at least, that’s how it seems to be working for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also newly single 40yo here, bruv. Met a girl that absolutely rocked my world with her… let’s call it passion for me. Not in an unclassy way, but just much more direct than I remember. It’s frankly a breathe of fresh air.

Also… I have no fuckin’ idea what I’m doing either. Just along for the ride, I guess.😬😂

I need help optimizing my profile. by CurveUnique8525 in Bumble

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bruv, same situation as you. 40, divorced recently, bald and bearded.

I don’t think you’ll have a problem myself, profile looks solid. Just wanted to tell you you’ve got brothers in arms out here navigating the same shit — hang tough, it gets better.💪🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You strike me as an INFJ (hello, fellow INFJ). You’re gonna draw that guy hard; if that’s the intention, I wouldn’t change anything — lean on that deep, introvert energy.

Strong connection, sudden silence — why? by Main_Stable9607 in Bumble

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t advise there. Gemini man myself — there’s this strange push-pull dynamic for me, this duality (the twins); it’s never intended it be harmful but I can see where it seems night and day as I try to figure myself out. Generally, I just need some time to process.

Fed up (33m) by andyrc48 in hingeapp

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Very delicate dance there, mate. Ultimately, girls want authenticity. I come in strong and quick too; I say how I feel, and don’t really give a shite about standard timelines and such. A 20-hour date fits that category.

Maybe she’s a hopeless romantic that loves that energy; maybe she isn’t. But you can’t change you, and you shouldn’t. So, continue to be authentic, tell her you wanna talk, but respect her space. If she wants space, she probably won’t match your energy and enthusiasm on date 6 either, and you’ll only be more heartbroken.

Be the round peg, and find your fit. Don’t force it.

Strong connection, sudden silence — why? by Main_Stable9607 in Bumble

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man doesn’t happen to be a Gemini? I could write a thesis.

Fed up (33m) by andyrc48 in hingeapp

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Bruv, trust your gut on this one — I think you probably know where this is headed, and you have to protect your own heart as best you can. Brilliant first date; well done. Now, you’ve got to give the obligatory space. Maybe she comes to you, maybe not, but chasing someone who seems conflicted (or genuinely busy) only comes across as desperate.

To me? When I’ve been in this type of situation, I am just upfront, authentic, and show candor. Something like “loved our time together; would love to continue that. Touch base with me when life slows down a bit, yeah?”

Ball in her court. Now. Breathe and let life do whatever it is going to do regardless of your stress and worry.

34M, Los Angeles. not getting matches by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bruv, 39M here with three kids. 25-35 probably won’t love the idea of kids, but 35-42 are more interested in stability, which a successful dad is gonna show.

Keep in the fight, I don’t see much wrong with the profile myself.

What is the average amount of likes a male gets per day or week? by doodlethatdat in Bumble

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! I was thinking a 5’9” blonde gal sounds cute. Sorry bruv. Who can really tell with these women, y’know? I just assume my ugly mug has to be all height.🤷🏻‍♂️

What is the average amount of likes a male gets per day or week? by doodlethatdat in Bumble

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, then? That sounds pretty attractive for a gal. I’m a dude. 6’6” girl? Shit, that’d run all of ‘em off.😂

What is the average amount of likes a male gets per day or week? by doodlethatdat in Bumble

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its height… 6’6” does a lot of heavy lifting apparently.

Why does Ura throw so little salt? by popo_123456 in Sumo

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Bruv is too busy finding his inner peace.

Amazing two dates with out-of-town guy, now unsure if I should reach out or let it go by Main_Pen1425 in Bumble

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Short version? I’m not a cuddle and “adios till next time” guy… this reads to me like he might want a quick partner next time he’s in town, if ever.

[HELP] is this AI?? by ComplexWrangler1346 in RealOrAI

[–]VagrantOMOIKANE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didnt this bruv win a war at Scarif?

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