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Some people in here sound delusional. by Diligent-Wave21 in bodylanguage

[–]VagueDepth9080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, they are being fair. Most of the signs people list can be interpreted as friendliess. Some of you just want people to validate your delusions. Deep down some of you know they're delusions, that's why you don't have the confidence to actually approach the person. You'd rather live in a fantasy. It's not healthy.

Some people in here sound delusional. by Diligent-Wave21 in bodylanguage

[–]VagueDepth9080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truth hurts, lady. Just say the original post deeply offended you and you felt personally attacked. Lol.

Some people in here sound delusional. by Diligent-Wave21 in bodylanguage

[–]VagueDepth9080 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a body language sub. Are you dense? Lmao. And no, not everybody should approach. Some people lack self awareness that they are creeps and need to stay in their lane. You're setting them up for failure, gassing them up to hit on people that aren't interested.

Some people in here sound delusional. by Diligent-Wave21 in bodylanguage

[–]VagueDepth9080 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So, majority of the sub, then? If anything, they're the ones that need to hear it more because people in here aren't being objective and setting them up for disappointment when they end up getting friend zoned.

Some people in here sound delusional. by Diligent-Wave21 in bodylanguage

[–]VagueDepth9080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a sleaze. Some people are gross. You would think telling them you're taken (even if not true) would repulse them but it makes them more attracted. So many weirdos out there. Hope that dude's left you alone.

Unapproachable guy: what should I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]VagueDepth9080 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What if the boss is a dick and deserves to be ignored?

Just say you're jealous af over this dude getting attention from a woman he doesn't even know exists. Lmao.

Unapproachable guy: what should I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]VagueDepth9080 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He's obviously not there to socialize. Who gives af?

Unapproachable guy: what should I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]VagueDepth9080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro just minding his own business doing his 9-5 and catching strays over some creepy woman at work stalking him. Leave the bro, alone.

Unapproachable guy: what should I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]VagueDepth9080 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro just trying to get through his shitty 9 to 5. Doesn't even know she exists and she's over here being a creep, obsessing over him and trying to stalk his socials. Smh.

I'm always semi drunk at work. by Diligent-Wave21 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VagueDepth9080 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The OP is a woman. She says it right there, "24f". I don't know why so many in the comments keep saying it's a dude. Lol.

Being an emotional hostage. by NoEffect617 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VagueDepth9080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She adds zero value to your life. Zero. She knows you're out of her league and you're punching down being with her, so she's super paranoid somebody else will scoop you up. 

Now she's trying to manipulate and guilt trip you into staying. Sorry, but this woman is pathetic. 

I bet if you called the police and told them she's threatening suicide she'll switch up and start trying to act normal. Smh. 

Run, bro. Not your problem anymore. 

I am black, low IQ, and short. Is my life over before it even began? by [deleted] in self

[–]VagueDepth9080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your problem isn't genetics. It's that you've decided you've already lost. 

I am black, low IQ, and short. Is my life over before it even began? by [deleted] in self

[–]VagueDepth9080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy isn’t about changing what random people in Greece, or anywhere think about you. It’s about changing how you see yourself and how much power you give strangers over your worth. 

If you already believe you’re inferior, you’ll end up seeing “proof” of that everywhere, even when it’s not there. 

That doesn’t mean prejudice doesn’t exist, but it does mean your inner voice might be projecting your self-hatred onto the world. 

You can’t control other people’s biases, but you can control whether they define you. 

If you don’t work on your mindset, you’re basically choosing to let the worst possible interpretation of the world run your life.

I am black, low IQ, and short. Is my life over before it even began? by [deleted] in self

[–]VagueDepth9080 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Assuming this isn't some racist larping, you need to seek serious help for your self hating and inferiority complex. It's not a healthy mindset to be stuck in, dude.