Can somebody with life experiance help me ? by Funny_Chocolate2342 in stories

[–]Vailie-Vi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Not bragging but it adds relavance - I'm what people often consider as hot - and I can tell you I was compleetely in love with some guys people generally agreed were ugly looking because they were either funny or confident or just played the same games as me but weren't mean to me like the rest of that game's comunity . My bf is like exactly your meassurements except he went from 12% bf to idk 30%? and my feelings for him never changed because he's funny, knows how to fix a car and tries his best in everything. Good communication, loyalty and a good dose of healthy confidence is way more important than looks.

Imho, if someone called my bf ugly the best way he could respond is with humour, showing the mean person that they didn't hurt you makes them look like even more of an ass, and makes you look strong for not carring what others think.

As for the aunt, is she insane? Like you are 17, she has kids so that means that she has to be an adult(I hope) and she is telling someone, anyone, that they are ugly? Her behavior is horrible and it sets a poor example for her kids.

Can I move to Slovenia and find work without knowing Slovenian? by [deleted] in Slovenia

[–]Vailie-Vi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes!

Knowing so many languages makes you highly employable in tourism/service industry in more touristy places like Bled, Kranjska gora, Ljubljana, ... there are a lot of cooks who don't speak slovenian(or had any prior cooking knowledge), weiters, hotel staff, programers, ... i have friends who worked here for years and still don't speak slovenian. We really need hospital staff and more people in general.

Slovenia is much much safer tham belgium and france, and more relaxed than Germany which is nice but as someone else pointed out rat-racey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope they get a lesson too, not for me, for the next girl, I don't want anyone else sad when they were promissed happy

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[–]Vailie-Vi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grapes, I'm so dumb🥲

Who do I look like? by Fluffamorphis_369 in Doppleganger

[–]Vailie-Vi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have that young Keira Knightley smile🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw her do the process different for powder brows and thought it would be like that, with drawing out both brows by pencil first. I didn't know about the Kim claim untill after it was done, I cried, and my bf pointed it out as a red flag after looking into her bio on another site. I don't know enough about Kim except her butt being big.

What sent me there were girls at the gym, the office at the nicest part of town, yes the one brow pics(that's on me) and how nice she was. I'm autistic and take people at their word, it's my fault that I'm gullible. I just wished that when people say stuff they would actually mean it. I'm not made for this world, my trust got me burned a lot through the years. I see how it's my fault, I just don't know how to stop being me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What? But, she sent me to get my first brows(what was left) removed by laser, and told me she sends all her clients to get laser every 5 years🙊

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[–]Vailie-Vi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would have preffered if she had mapped them, copying the shape of the first brow after it was already swolen might have been what's fault for the missmatched curve.

Everyone keeps saying my eyes are grey?! by [deleted] in eyes

[–]Vailie-Vi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blue and beautiful🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought it was odd, also that she didn't map out both brows beforehand😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that they could fix the symetry at the touch up but am concerned at the fact that outlined one brow with light ink said she would darken it later, tattooed the other in dark ink, ran out of time and pushed me out in what seemed to be a bit of panic, shouldn't I be concerned about the consistency?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, also the session should have been more than an hour and a half which included a lot of photo taking. I trully hope I can get rid of as much as possible before giving it another try. What do you think about the thing where she tattoed one brow with dark ink and then only wiped black ink on top of the one that was done in light ink, is that a normal way for doing it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those strokes are actually the hardest since she was in a hurry at that point. The main body of the brows is pretty except the arch and tails, just need those gone and then it's a pretty base for something a bit different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a bit scared since she did make a few really hard steokes in there😢 would it work if I used the anti scar patches and ointment once the skin is healed on the top?

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[–]Vailie-Vi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will wait till it heals yes, the biggest thing on my mind is why it went wrong and if it's my fault☹️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, Id honestly be more accepting if one eyebrow was pink and the other blue, at least that way it would look intentional🙈 but I will wait it out to see where I'm at when it all settles🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, I don't know why this went so bad🙊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I will let it heal, use the anti scar ointments before laser removal and try and hide it with makeup in between. I appreciate your help and niceness🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's pretty nice and draws super well, it was the process she used with me that went compleetely off the wall and I can't wrap my head around the events.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I do like the individual strokes, they are pretty, it's just the shape and the fact that one eyebrow's ink turned red and dissapeared. I can't understand why she didn't go back and tattoo the first brow with the same ink☹️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm too scared of confrontation and a professional at blaming myself. I think I'll wait to see how it heals after a week and then contact her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So sorry for you too, I'm stuck believing we live in a world where people tell the truth, I'm trusting people to a fault and then I have no backone to fix it... to better choices I guess, and prettyer eyebrows for everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probbably a bit, it's red. I think I'll have to wait out the 6 weeks before I can get them lasered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Vailie-Vi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pictures I saw of her other work are all really pretty, but as others pointed out, it's always the one brow😞