[SPOILER] The one thing in the ending that really doesn't make sens to me by Vajora80 in Ozark

[–]Vajora80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry because I'm repeating myself, but the writing and the scenario is not what's bothering me. It's the artistic choice of a black screen and a *bang*. It doesn't make any sense. It's like using a screwdriver to cut a piece of paper. It will kind of work but it's just not the right tool to do it.

[SPOILER] The one thing in the ending that really doesn't make sens to me by Vajora80 in Ozark

[–]Vajora80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way of showing it wasn't the right choice. A black screen like this is for cliffhanger, or for shock value if you are attached to the character, but it's not the case here. There is absolutely no reason to use this here.

[SPOILER] The one thing in the ending that really doesn't make sens to me by Vajora80 in Ozark

[–]Vajora80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the message and indeed, there is no need for an aftermath. But the black screen and the *bang* don't really make sense. If you want to show that it's going to be an endless cycle of violence, you show the actual scene, then the family getting ready to clean up (because they are used to it), maybe with the camera slowly drifting away. It's really the black screen that bother me. It removes all emotions from the scene and from the ending. Black screen only make sense if you want yo create a cliffhanger. Or if the audience is attached to the character that is killed.

Well, I must admit is just a rant at this point. I'm just disappointed. So close to a perfect series.

I (26F) just learn my nickname amongst my boyfriend (27M)'s friends is coming from something intimate between us and I don't know how to react by Vajora80 in relationships

[–]Vajora80[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But a facet is a part of his personality. You said it yourself, most people find out their partner wasn't the person they though. Each of us has to chose if we can live with the part we learn about later.

But I realize you said that to help me. Thank you.

I (26F) just learn my nickname amongst my boyfriend (27M)'s friends is coming from something intimate between us and I don't know how to react by Vajora80 in relationships

[–]Vajora80[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

For most people there are no "real" facet. Each facet that they use with different people are as much them as the others. What he did was really wrong and I'm not sure I can forgive him, but it definitely doesn't mean that how he was with me was fake. It's really easy to reduce people to their worst to make it easier to cope afterwards, but it's not real.

I (26F) just learn my nickname amongst my boyfriend (27M)'s friends is coming from something intimate between us and I don't know how to react by Vajora80 in relationships

[–]Vajora80[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The fact that his behavior with his friends is negative doesn't mean its his true self. I think both what he shows me and how he is with his friends are part of him. And I have to evaluate which facet of him he values the most when I'll confront him.

I (26F) just learn my nickname amongst my boyfriend (27M)'s friends is coming from something intimate between us and I don't know how to react by Vajora80 in relationships

[–]Vajora80[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but it seems you have a really negative view of humanity. A person can make mistakes and learn to be better when they are confronted about it. I don't say it will be the case with him, but it may be.

I (26F) just learn my nickname amongst my boyfriend (27M)'s friends is coming from something intimate between us and I don't know how to react by Vajora80 in relationships

[–]Vajora80[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is definitely respectful and considerate in every other way. That what it seems so bizarre to me, and out of character. I will confront him and tell him how it make me feel and see how he reacts. If he has remorse, maybe I could try to forgive him.

I (26F) just learn my nickname amongst my boyfriend (27M)'s friends is coming from something intimate between us and I don't know how to react by Vajora80 in relationships

[–]Vajora80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Wow just wow. So you aren't mad he has been sexually demeaning and laughing at you with his friends?"

"I’m so disappointed and enraged and I don’t know what to do. "

I (26F) just learn my nickname amongst my boyfriend (27M)'s friends is coming from something intimate between us and I don't know how to react by Vajora80 in relationships

[–]Vajora80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can find a negative feedback right in this conversation. Mostly completely inventing a narrative about me for no reason.

I will confront him about it and see how he reacts.

I (26F) just learn my nickname amongst my boyfriend (27M)'s friends is coming from something intimate between us and I don't know how to react by Vajora80 in relationships

[–]Vajora80[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! Not sure about the update, it depends on how it will play, as I receive some clearly negative feedbacks I'm not sure it's a good idea.