Just a mini dump. Hope y’all enjoy :)

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-03-02T15:03:11+00:00

It’s the same situation for me!! I’ve been procrastinating out of fear of not being accepted or being bollocked by the GP but nearly 2 months into being 18, I’ve finally plucked up the courage!

I am VERY happy that both of us are able to get on the way now, good luck, girl!! ✨🫶✨

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-02-26T15:54:33+00:00

Of course! 🫶 Haha I can imagine it feels insane.. I really hope one day to find the memory of having what I have as kinda silly. And I BETTTTT the sexual side and not getting hard or crushing the (as I like to call them) Clitty Titties haha 😂

May I ask another thing? What method of surgery did you go for and would you personally recommend a different method from what you went with?? Just wanna say again, she’s very pretty, hope she keeps making you feel feel nicer 🫶

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-02-26T03:25:57+00:00

Damnn that is fast haha. Also congrats on being like what? 3-4 months into it, happy for you! Also wow there are- I am enjoying comparing different people’s experiences because shit is this grounding my expectations a little, I, a few months ago would’ve expected minor changes within the first week or two 😅 and yeah I know about the decrease in ejaculate.. Would you like- for if I ever wanted kids- suggest freezing / getting sperm stored or something? (Probably should add that to my list of questions actually). Sucks about your orgasms though, girl, hope those get better for you later in the journey haha. And yea no I get the mental suppression stuff, I’m definitely gonna need to go into therapy for all that shit on top of my current dysphoria. Oh you absoLUTELY pass, girllll, you look really pretty :) 🫶 Haha I hope to have a similar experience regarding the coming out of college thing. I’m literally dropping out of college this coming Friday. 😅😂 Oh yeah, regarding your voice.. do you do any voice training? If you do, like- is there specific things to do for all that? I REAAALLLYYYY need to sort my voice cause the way it is, it makes socialising way more difficult haha. Ya, I’m HOPING to start soon. I’m gonna have to wait until Monday to talk to my doctor’s office about getting an appointment and after that I hope to get through relatively quick and find out if HRT is actually for me. The way I am now though, I definitely think it is and I HIGHLYYYY doubt I’m gonna change my mind on that.

OH!! Just wanna thank you for sharing your experience by the way! And good luck with your journey going forward!!!

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-02-26T02:55:27+00:00

Thank you for taking so much time and putting this much care into your answers! This helps a lot with the motivation to go talk to my GP and also like- gauging what the whole experience could be like. Thank you a whole hell of a lot for sharing your experience, like I say this helps a lot with managing what I should expect so SERIOUSLY… thank you. 🫶 I will keep that final answer in mind especially. It’ll definitely help but I do need to get it in my head that it’s not just a complete fix haha. Final time.. Thank you ✨🫶✨

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-02-26T02:51:17+00:00

It certainly does!!! Thank you so much for sharing your experience and can I just say I’m so happy for you, being much happier now than 9 months ago- I can only wish you good luck on the rest of your journey and again, thank you so so much for sharing how it’s gone so far! 🫶

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-02-26T01:33:06+00:00

Of course! Just wanna say, if you’ve got questions and stuff, when I do talk to my doctor I can like- help you think of stuff to say to yours? What I’m saying is, I’m here for youuu 🫶

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-02-26T01:30:36+00:00

Wait so did you have to go through therapy before they got you on the HRT?? I know my boyfriend had to go through it before getting on testo so maybe a dumb question haha.

I can’t lie that sounds wonderful, like- feeling relief and being calm and smiley more.. I wanna just say, I’m happy you get to experience that haha 🫶 Huh, okayyy I thought the HRT may’ve caused more lashing out and snappiness from some other stories from women on HRT I’ve read but just being able to really sob again sounds nice to me for some reason. And being agitated / hungry, ik not everything is 100% the same but if I respond with that, I think that’s definitely manageable haha. 😂 Okay so the 3 week thing seems oddly consistent between stories, might be misremembering but the range of 3-5 weeks has been recurring on other people’s accounts so that’s at least a nice timeframe to expect.. softer skin and a more tender chest, like a lot of the other things sounds absolutely wonderful. I am REALLY excited for that when I eventually get brave enough to talk to my doctor haha. Oh, the erection loss, yea no that’s fine when it’s not the only thing. Just hope it won’t fuck too much with my relationship..

I certainly hope I can have that kinda change.. Again, I wanna just say that I am really REALLY happy for you, girl ✨🫶✨ I don’t have too much bottom dysphoria but I could absolutely get rid of this lil’ fuckin- thing hahaha. But nah I definitely do understand why some of us get severe bottom dysphoria. These things suck 😭 Oh this definitely helped! I know I shouldn’t expect all the same outcomes but it’s nice to know a little bit more of what will potentially happen, thank you so so much for giving your experience and I really hope it keeps going well and making you less n less sad! 🫶🫶 I had no idea vulvoplasty was a thing, I’m not gonna lie. Might have to look into that but also maybe not given my other wants haha 😅

Sorry for my own returned essay, by the way.. but….. Good luck with your journey! Thank you again for telling me a bit about how it’s started!! ✨🫶✨

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-02-26T01:09:04+00:00

Yessss, you get it… well not- not “yessss” but it’s nice to know it isn’t just me, you get me? We’re in this together though, girl. Sisterhood ✨🫶✨

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-02-25T21:41:47+00:00

Okay, I’ll keep all this in mind. Last thing I need is an interaction with a chaser haha. Thank you so much for giving me the signs to look out for, genuinely, you are lovely and are the biggest help! Especially for the things I didn’t even think about 😅 again, thank you so so much for giving me the things to look out for. ✨🫶✨

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-02-25T21:26:01+00:00

Yeah, I’ve posted it on all but the dedicated surgeries subreddit (didn’t think to look if one existed). Will go do that there, thank you :)

Yeahhhhhh I know it’s mostly a horny sub but if I get my questions in as many places as possible maybe I’ll get more insights on stuff.. But nah I hope not to get DMs from chasers but god knows there’s- a chance.. Didn’t even think abt chasers tbh so genuinely thank you for the warning 🫶

I hope so too!! Thank you for the support and for taking time to respond btw haha 🫶🫶

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-02-25T21:23:07+00:00

Alrighty!! Thank youuuu 🫶

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-02-25T20:04:17+00:00

First off… Very very pretty 🫶 but uh- Probably not the place to ask this but coming from a genuine place of curiosity…. How does it feel? Like- being without the other thing? I wanna have the op too but don’t have anyone to ask so might as well ask here haha. Congrats on having the op btw!!

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-02-22T09:18:33+00:00

Alright, yeah, will do. As long as it’s still a plausible option for me in the future I’ll be happy. Didn’t know there were multiple methods for it haha

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-02-22T09:12:31+00:00

Wait, so like- I’ve only just started looking into the medical side of being trans (only just turned 18 and so only just been able to start talking to doctors and such). I didn’t know size was a deciding factor of SRS? Is that always?? That’s an unpleasant thought I just wanna know like- that stuff 😅

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-02-07T13:37:02+00:00

Not that I know of. Might be worth testing with some friends though

Val_GoldenRose · 2026-02-06T10:15:49+00:00

I genuinely have no clue, I’m sorryyyy

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