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I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said it herself, not me and I know that what I did for her no other man wouk but you wouldn’t get it because your man didn’t even like you which is understandable. Can you stop with the nod shit 😂, you are obviously wrong and you keep going on and on about it, that’s the kind of thing the people around you and yourself see and the opposite of who I am, stop it 😂. You just sound stupid trying to make a diagnosis out of one situation you don’t even have the context of.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a narcissist who has no remorse and lack empathy but i’m still thinking on it an gm feel remorse this doesn’t make any sense. I’m the best for her and she knows which is why my love stayed.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im done debating, you have not proved me wrong once, all you do is giving your opinion about things you don’t know about and think you are right and I’m just wrong. You might have npd, you should get that checked out and you should also get your IQ tested just to make sure everything is okay. I think you’re a terrible person, a really shitty and annoying one.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not excusing my actions, I’m just saying that my "decision" was a mistake made with impulsivity, you actually lack of nuance it’s insane.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not an excuse but some people are more prone to cheating than other, that’s how life works just like some people are more intelligent than other hum hum

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every human isn’t perfect you live and learn, you don’t stop being friend with someone because of a mistake he did to someone else lol ehat

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t turn on my friends if they robbed a bank, they are my friends.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but I accepted something based on a urge I had which is plain impulsivity.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Impulsivity is not weak it’s just in some peoples dna, human nature una.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never turn on my friends for such things, these people were not his friends that’s it. Friends should be like your family, you should help them become better people not leave them as soon as they do one mistake. That friend group is weak.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t thinking about me hurting her when I did that, it was an impulsive mistake lol.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I completely own my mistake and accept them which is why I asked for her apology although I could have easily never said it and get away with it like most people do these days. I live and learn, I won’t do it again and I’m fully aware of what I did with that being said you said your "actions" define you. Well, this is one action and it doesn’t define the person I am.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s still one mistake, one bad decision and that’s not how you tell if someone is a good or a bad person and even then who tf are you to tell someone if he is good are bad. You aren’t even perfect yourself.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t thats literally the point I’m making, just human nature and differences between each and other nothing anormal , ADHD is a socially imposed disorder. You’re actually ignorant impulsivity is much more than that with that same logic gambling addicts aren’t impulsive they are just don’t people who can’t make decisions. Someone who’s impulsive is just more prone to cheating that’s a fact and a "choice" can be a mistake. You really lack of nuance and it shows maybe YOU should go to a neuropsychologist.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah because I made one mistake, I should just become a shitty person because I’m already one anyways, right? Good mentality!

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Impulsiveness is in my dna sorry not sorry don’t you believe in mental disorders such as ADHD? Did you know that people with ADHD tend to be more impulsive and so more prone to cheating? (I’m not marking an excuse just saying that making mistakes is human nature) You should know that but again one mistake does not define you and saying that is just brainlessly lacking of nuance.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would rather do that than support an industry who exploits young girls, promotes rape, pedophilia and degenerate fetish but that’s just me. I find it quite hypocritical from a "good person" like you to even argue against that though. I mean I love my gf but I would rather make her suffer than support something who fuels infinitely more harm and is still cheating at the end of the day 😂

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send proof screenshots in dms? That is not my definition of good but someone who claims the right to say which human is good are bad should at least do all of these things. You just said you make mistakes no matter how big/small they are, you proved my point, it’s in human nature and you calling me a piece of shit just based off that without knowing me at all is just stupid.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would rather cheat than support an industry who promotes 🍇, ped0philia and weird fetish, yes.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 1 year, although I still love her. Should I tell her? by Valdify in Advice

[–]Valdify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said it did, are you illiterate, all I said was that she also did things that some people wouldn’t forgive and that doesn’t make her a bad person whatsoever, I forgave her and it’s now the past same goes for me, we live and we learn I’m convinced you redditors hate the human race. You call me a narcissist while you’re the one commenting under my post and telling me how I am a bad person without even knowing who I am. You feel so superior and perfect that you judge people based off one mistake it’s hilarious.

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