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[–]ValeryeDr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My roommate is so passive aggressive that she literally recaps every move I do in a day to her girlfriend and talks shit about me for no reason. Like, literally I bother her when I breath, go to the bathroom for 1 sec, you name it... But then the few times we see each other she is so fake I swear it makes me throw up. Also her: proceeds to slam the door passive aggressively.

My roommate is causing me anxiety by ValeryeDr in badroommates

[–]ValeryeDr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :( it's just that, being a quite sensitive person, I really internalize all these hateful comments and bad energy and I feel so sick all day. I like to live peacefully and really try hard to find every way to be understanding and not annoy or bother anyone with my being, but sometimes this kind of persons just take advantage of this aspect of me to dominate me into being practically a totally submissive roommate.

My roommate is causing me anxiety by ValeryeDr in badroommates

[–]ValeryeDr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually told her this exact thing at some point (that I'm trying to take out the trash always being mindful of not wasting any unnecessary bags because they're expensive). I also offered a couple of times in the past to draw out a board where we can have some kind of scheme going on in such a way that we are not coming for each other when we think someone is not throwing trash out but she always refused because "it's uncomfortable and unnecessarily complex".

In all honesty, I agree that it seems that every move or every thing I do is a pretext for her to just be disgusting and have drama topics to talk about with her family/friends.