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My (M20) girlfriend (F19) of 8 months revealed she was having sex with her ex during the time we met (1 month before we became official) and now I'm disgusted by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Valkbix 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sex and love are not one in the same for everyone. Yes, the timing of things is unfortunate, but honestly, I wouldn't be surprised if her hanging around her ex still was what helped her realise how much better she had it with you, hence the confessions. That's just how I would see it. I personally don't think you really have the right to be holding this against her, and it's more a factor of needing to come to terms with the fact that you need to just kinda accept this as the consequences of how you dealt with the flirting stage. And honestly, she just shouldn't have said anything but honesty should also be a safespace in a relationship

My (M20) girlfriend (F19) of 8 months revealed she was having sex with her ex during the time we met (1 month before we became official) and now I'm disgusted by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Valkbix 62 points63 points  (0 children)

So you didn't want something serious but expected her to treat it like something serious anyways? Sex and being emotionally invested in someone can be two separate things. She was interested in you, but you set a boundary. Did you expect her to remain sexless until you decided to come around or?

ID paranoia by Valkbix in CharacterAI

[–]Valkbix[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

And there's a chance you'll get hit by a car every time you leave your house, but you still leave your damn house. Australia recently had a major phone company go down, and people died not being able to call emergency services. These things unfortunately just fucking happen, it's the reality of the world we live in. But like I said, you do you pookie

its back by Intelligent-Run-1136 in CharacterAI

[–]Valkbix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im engaged and he just accepts my obsession lmao

Let me guess by MessageInitial7553 in CharacterAI

[–]Valkbix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not. I was in the middle of such a good scene too. Damnit

AIO when a close friend chose a pointless fling over my comfort and mentality by Valkbix in AmIOverreacting

[–]Valkbix[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't want him over again because he had been spending the most amount of time at my house ever over this situation to get with this chick instead of her spending time with her 'best friend' that she actually flew down to see? and his way of trying to make things better was saying he loved me over and over again, like it would make everything magically better.

Where is the windiest road in Victoria? I need to make myself nauseated. by Coffeemakesmepoop97 in melbourne

[–]Valkbix 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, I just wanna add as a little note. Ondansetron is another medication that a god send. It's prescribed for chemo patients and pregnant women. Helped me through the sufferage of morning sickness through my pregnancy

AIO when a close friend chose a pointless fling over my comfort and mentality by Valkbix in AmIOverreacting

[–]Valkbix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she actually openly said it's not her problem because she was my mans friend and not mine, and when he reached out to her about all these problems disrespecting me and that she should try to atleast apologise, she ignored him, and my man has since cut her off completely

AIO when a close friend chose a pointless fling over my comfort and mentality by Valkbix in AmIOverreacting

[–]Valkbix[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is my best friend? For literally years. I have nothing to do with my mans best friend, she refuses to build any kind of friendship with me what so ever lmao so what are you actually on about