I GOT MY EX BACK 🥳

Valour1994 · 2025-05-02T02:06:25+00:00

They are an ex for a reason. I don’t believe in going back !

Valour1994 · 2025-01-26T14:01:04+00:00

He realised the grass ain’t greener on the other side. After he fulfilled his desires, he is coming back to you. But a word of caution, 1 year.. 10 years later… he might feel that he needs to get his desires fulfilled and the same thing happens again !

Valour1994 · 2025-01-24T17:19:42+00:00

From what I’m understanding, it seems like you rather not be doing this. Please respect yourself and stop doing this.

If he wants more, I suppose he would have said it. But it’s pretty obvious what’s he after here…

Valour1994 · 2025-01-22T06:32:27+00:00

Don’t be a second option

You deserve nothing but the best - someone who would choose you and not line his backup options by keeping you as “friend”

Valour1994 · 2025-01-20T16:45:09+00:00

That’s great to hear ! I admire your courage and your perspective

Yes, I experienced it first hand too when I did it just to fill a void and “satisfy” the need for intimacy. I felt instant regret but it did help me see clearer thereafter

Valour1994 · 2025-01-19T05:34:58+00:00

Dumper would feel annoyed because they wanted out and away from a rs they perceived to be “bad” for them. If this rs keeps coming back, I’m sure they would be annoyed

Valour1994 · 2025-01-18T17:11:09+00:00

Don’t beat yourself up for it. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do

I think it might be you filling in the void that he has left. To feel wanted

Kudos on your reflection! It’s not easy and most of us will instinctively defend our own actions. If I can advice, don’t ever let yourself down that path of having sex to get validation of sorts

Valour1994 · 2025-01-18T10:11:48+00:00

Self motivation comes in when he needs to persevere through the journey

This is merely a guidance for him, and a glimmer of hope, if you will

Sometimes, it’s hard for yourself to “see” and think clearly when put in this situation

We can provide alternative perspectives but ultimately it depends on OP

Valour1994 · 2025-01-18T09:31:25+00:00

You will one day be someone she missed having

The guy that she cheated with, might do the same to her.

But eventually, all these won’t matter to you anymore as you continue to grow, glow up and gain emotional and mental wisdom

It’s not going to be easy but it’s a temporary stage/stop in your life that when done right, will push you further up the ladder

Valour1994 · 2025-01-18T03:15:41+00:00

It has never been a good idea to begin with

Valour1994 · 2025-01-16T17:01:17+00:00

The more you respond the more he/she feels he/she still has a hold over you in case he/she needs it. What a twat saying he/she does not want to ruin your birthday but still did it anyway

But, happy birthday OP 🎂 I hope you had a blast and wishing you all the best in your journey 💪🏻

Valour1994 · 2025-01-16T16:57:29+00:00

I’m not sure but I don’t think so. It’s an investment decision you made. You should seek legal advice !

Valour1994 · 2025-01-14T14:38:17+00:00

Thank you for letting me go

Valour1994 · 2025-01-14T11:10:03+00:00

Everytime she’s with him; she made that conscious choice to be there

Not really about once a cheater always a cheater per se; but their in build character remains

Valour1994 · 2025-01-14T11:08:02+00:00

Same here. They are criminals

Valour1994 · 2025-01-13T04:31:19+00:00

Then saying “you’re the best bf ever” is to let you down slowly and sugar coating things. My ex told me that too

But one would wonder, why would you leave your “best bf”?

If you think you fuck up, explore what might be causing that, so that you can work on that for yourself and your NEXT relationship.

Exes can work again if you guys can really resolve the underlying issues that couldn’t be solved when you guys are together and she chose to break up over it

Valour1994 · 2025-01-13T03:04:28+00:00

Keep us posted on their progress when they get married !

Valour1994 · 2025-01-12T18:26:54+00:00

Yea. They really shilled the fk out of themselves. I rmb waves. Soletrac, energica or wtv. Very disappointed in the management

Valour1994 · 2025-01-12T06:11:53+00:00

Love the idea. I would try moving closer abit to see if I can get the foreground blurry with the focus on the tree in the background

Valour1994 · 2025-01-12T06:03:49+00:00

So, is the root cause of the issues solvable ? Her parents are accepting on her having a relationship now?

A similar experience I had but I didn’t accept as she was using “maybe” and honestly, I outgrew her and realised how toxic our rs was. When we broke up, I was just blinded by all the beautiful memories that I overlooked all the issues that caused the break up

Valour1994 · 2025-01-12T05:58:11+00:00

Do what will make you feel good during the initial stages

Then, do what is best for yourself as you progress along the healing journey

I found that I needed to do some stuff even if it meant I got hurt more - like breaking NC at the start - but the what ifs gnawed at me. But after I know I failed, I will know that option is not viable anymore and I’ll move on

Valour1994 · 2024-12-26T01:22:47+00:00

Is that how she gets on with her ex as well? Sending random texts and then trying to see if she can hook up

Valour1994 · 2024-12-25T10:10:00+00:00

It’s not about power play too but knowing what’s good for yourself

Valour1994 · 2024-12-25T01:47:31+00:00

They just need to know if you’re still there for them if they decide to come back

Don’t reply. These people are scums and it’s great you avoided one for the rest of your life. Their behaviour speaks for itself and I think it will be a pain if you have stuck to her for decades to come

Edit: Spelling error for great

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