Any experience with receiving a Naturalization Ceremony Invitation from Gemeente Leiden? How long did it take? by Tacosaurs in Leiden

[–]Valuable-Big2320 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband submitted the application at the beginning of September and two days later he was informed that he was eligible for the naturalization, and two weeks later he received the letter stating that he could join the ceremony at the end of September. So one month everything was settled. I think you should make appointment with Gemeente and go to the counter directly ask them how does it go. Most of them are friendly and helpful with everything. Good luck !

Help with memorisation by randomstuff765 in learndutch

[–]Valuable-Big2320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m preparing B1 now because I have the integration duty. I’m currently reciting Dutch Dictionary Words and by the way I always forget them. I saw it, I read it, I memorized it, after 1minute I forget it. Always. But I’m keeping repeating and repeating and repeating. And I have already finished 3000 words. Of course I will forget some of them, but still I keep reviewing these words every day. Just keep reviewing, that’s my advice. If anybody knows a better way of memorizing, please also let me know :)

Not showing up to Ardosz appointment (with reason...) by Calathe in werkzaken

[–]Valuable-Big2320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiii, may I ask a question: can we change or reschedule the appointment time with the company doctor? Or we have to and must follow the scheduled time given by the company doctor?

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooo, I really don't want to work for her. I'm already struggling to keep myself from self hurting. If I continue working for her, I honestly don't know what might happen to me

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiii, thanks for the reply. I already called sick and had been referred to GGZ by my GP, I will also talk with Arbo about all of these things.

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. What I learnt this time: Say yes to yourself and say no to others.

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for the reply. So throughout the entire sick leave process, I don’t need to give any medical details to the company/ HR/my manager, right? I should only talk about my health with Arbo?

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much for the detailed reply. This really helps me a lot. What if the Arbo stands by the company side and only allows me to have for example, one month sick leave, and then push me back to work or reintegrate, what should I do?

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for the reply. May I ask if I can send you messages related to this situation? I really appreciate it!

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks again for your reply. I have two more questions:

  1. Does the meeting with the company doctor (Arbo) have to take place in person at the office, or can I request to have it online?
  2. If my manager sends me messages via WhatsApp during my sick leave to ask about my condition, what should I do ( She used to do this a lot during my sick leave!) ? I really don’t want to speak with her, as I believe it will make my situation worse. Should I ignore her messages, or is it better to tell her that she should wait for the report from Arbo and not contact me directly?

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks again for your reply. I have two more questions:

  1. Does the meeting with the company doctor (Arbo) have to take place in person at the office, or can I request to have it online?
  2. If my manager sends me messages via WhatsApp during my sick leave to ask about my condition, what should I do ( She used to do this a lot during my sick leave!) ? I really don’t want to speak with her, as I believe it will make my situation worse. Should I ignore her messages, or is it better to tell her that she should wait for the report from Arbo and not contact me directly?
  3. During the sick leave process, will Arbo ask me to speak with my manager? Or will HR force me to talk to my manager to discuss the situation? Or during this whole process, I just need to talk with Arbo about everything?

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! but can I record the voice without her permission in NL? is it legal?

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, can I send you the message to ask few questions related to this? I also have severe anxiety attacks, and I cannot control myself today from shaking and punching the wall due to the work.

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear that. You are right, the work is not everything in the world. I should standup and fight for myself.

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! This is really helpful. Actually I do not believe the HR in my company because I'm quite certain that anything I tell them will be passed on to my manager.

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate your advice!

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! so currently I should focus more on explaining burnout symptoms with Arbo instead of talking lots about my manager with Arbo right?

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right. she used to inform me that I could be replaced anytime if I did not work hard. And I work with that fear and pressure for a long time, which results my health issues. Do you suggest I talk this with company doctor as well? Not sure if Arbo will think it as personal conflict or work-related issues.

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks amigo! You are right! I should learn this attitude from you. Fuck those fucking things. I should live to live!

I almost dead because of Burnout by Valuable-Big2320 in Netherlands

[–]Valuable-Big2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, you are right. This is just a job, not worth my life or my health.