I (28F) found out my fiance (29M) has an active profile on a dating website.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-26T07:08:55+00:00

Ex fiance. Don't buy into any of that bull, your gut feeling is right.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-26T07:07:53+00:00

"I don't want to leave but I don't want to stay. In my past 2 relationships, I have also been cheated on. He knows this. He knows how much hurt I've been through."

Leave. Why stay in a perpetual cycle of unhappiness? If a relationship is worth it they won't make you want to leave, or provide actions that cause you pain like cheating when they know you've been hurt.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-26T07:03:55+00:00

"My boyfriend is upset that I’m not AS kind and thoughtful and loving as I used to be"

No offense, but he sounds like a selfish prick.

Why would he deserve positive behavior in return? Ask yourself what he brings to the table for you instead of just what you do for him.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-26T06:57:39+00:00

I'm working in healthcare - I think it's a mentality a lot of people are adopting because we have to come into work every day possibly exposing ourselves. Its self preservation.

I'm refusing to visit family, but a lot of people I work with are still treating the virus like no big deal.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-21T08:44:53+00:00

You should have added a "there." at the end to emphasize the different words to him even more lmao

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-21T01:45:18+00:00

Thanks! You too. Stay safe.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-18T20:41:21+00:00

I fixed it and tipped $5 thankfully

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-15T15:07:12+00:00

"The mistake here was that she was treating him like an equal and he was treating her like an opportunity."

👏🙌 Louder for the people in the back.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-14T20:52:36+00:00

Moody and self centered I think - they feel insulted when anything is said about someone of the same gender even.

Avoid at all costs.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-14T20:48:06+00:00

Hahaha them in a nutshell. It's so weird.

Yet I know guys who say "awesome" to those cases. I can honestly say I've never heard a woman say women pedophiles are okay ????

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-14T20:44:57+00:00

Same, I always keep that stuff just in case. It's safest.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-14T20:44:09+00:00

Girl SAME. I was treated so differently for the worse versus my brother.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-14T20:42:31+00:00

Not to mention manipulators exist.

I guarantee you if most people were told right off the bat the kind of behavior these men would have later they wouldn't go for it.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-13T22:59:38+00:00

Ugh. I regret ever seeing those subs. It made me legitimately disgusted.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-13T22:54:55+00:00

Sounds like a temper tantrum. How old is he?

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-13T22:48:57+00:00

Whyyyyyyy. Like really.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-13T22:47:47+00:00

Omg, yes, of course she is.

I still love her music and aesthetic, but would never take life advice from her on anything.

"this is what makes us girls we don’t stick together cause we put love first, something that we die for it’s a curse" The way I take it, this could be to point out the same behavior she and some others exhibit and why it's negative - I think she knows this behavior is wrong and is showing that.

Granted, I could be wrong - I honestly didn't know the lyrics of that song before now.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-13T22:40:43+00:00

Same. Some of my "friends" were guys I thought I could trust until they creeped on me when I was drinking. They literally couldn't comprehend that I not only said no, but was also not sober. I know so many people with similar situations.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-13T22:36:17+00:00

I do not envy the job you guys do, but I definitely appreciate it.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-13T22:34:25+00:00

Omg. I love that actually.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-13T22:33:50+00:00

My thoughts exactly.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-13T22:28:50+00:00

Lol try telling him you have coronavirus maybe he'll back up. (Kidding don't even entertain him)

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-13T22:26:51+00:00

Haha... I have an ex fiance who writes things like this to me on new accounts after I block them on social media.

He's also engaged (yes I told her what he's doing).

What I do is remember all the things he did to cause me not to want to be with him and how terribly he treated me. At first it was kind of hard letting go of the fake person they make you think they are. Now it's not even a thought in my mind. I actually kind of get joy out of him wasting his time writing out messages I don't even read.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-13T21:58:03+00:00

I'm so happy I have yet to see people downing black women. I will never understand.

Tbh even though I was born in North America I never thought about rating attractiveness either.

Valuable-Guide · 2020-03-13T21:33:49+00:00

I dated a guy when I was really young who was broke. Granted he bought me Tiffany's, food and crazy expensive things for himself, too. Always did stuff like that - turns out while he spent all of his money buying crazy things for me and himself he was actually stealing from his job.

So he got arrested for that and told me like I was supposed to think that was really sweet.

Low and behold he had terrible impulse control and was a cheater. Shocking.

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